I see lots of people posting about giving up on dating and throwing shade at the opposite sex. Frankly I’m convinced people don’t try hard enough.

I’m in a relationship now and my gf asks me if I want to call when I get home and sometimes I do and sometimes I don’t and she wants me to go to church with her more and some Sundays I have things planned I’m worried she might do the same things my ex did or said. My ex got upset with me telling her I’m letting her down by not calling her, she punched her self in the eye because she wanted to call and I said depends on how tired I am and how late I get home from work. I told her before I don’t want to call every night. She gets upset with me when I don’t come over because I’m sick , get called into work on a Saturday, phone won’t charge (charging port is broke so I had to get wireless charger) she got mad when I tried to tell her what she says is bothering me