Asking
Only logged in members can reply and interact with the post.
Join SimilarWorlds for FREE »
Top | New | Old
Trust, communication, and being respected for who I am and what I do.

I am like you. I need that open communication . It helps me feel safe. When I don't feel it ..it's like a wall is up and I feel alone. I am very expressive . I probably talk too much. :)
@SpiritSkye Sometimes we all talk too much 😆 but it's part of being expressive and passionate.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
I struggle with having to communicate everything... every facial expression, every thought, the meaning behind every dislike, and having to keep the conversation going non-stop. And, then being accused of hiding something or something more nefarious when I shut down.

I am annoyed... yes annoyed... that having to communicate everything (EVERYTHING) is used as an indication of maturity and relationship growth. How about respecting my privacy?
@MarkPaul there should absolutely be boundaries for private time and thoughts. I'm sorry someone ever put all those expectations on you, that sounds extreme. Everyone needs some silence. Telling people you need space should be a normal thing.
Simulation · 31-35
It takes soooo long to build trust sometimes with certain people and I sometimes get impatient with how long it takes and carried away and go too fast or reveal too much too quickly and then see them withdraw a bit.

I also struggle with texting for some reason. I write a whole paragraph in enthusiasm when actually they respond better with small phrases or one or two sentences.
Bang5luts · M
Okay okay, honestly the biggest problem I've experienced was whenever I'm in a relationship the other person falls he's over heels in love with me almost instantaneously. It takes me a little while to fall in true love. Then when I do truly fall in love and start putting everything I have to give in to our relationship, then they back off and want to leave.

Maybe I shouldn't put so much of myself into a relationship. Maybe then it will last and be healthy? 😔🤷🏻‍♂
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
Remembering I have needs and my feelings are valid too. Sometimes I need support.
@basilfawlty89 that should be part of the relationship. You absolutely deserve support.
I struggle with never feeling worthy of being in a relationship
mareeeeahh · 26-30, F
the same as you & loyalty
HowtoDestroyAngels · 46-50, M
Not having any help from my partner.
@HowtoDestroyAngels help with what? I agree though, there has to be a balance or someone is getting drained
HowtoDestroyAngels · 46-50, M
@MarbleMarvel anything. Around the house, financially, you name it.
MarineBob · 56-60, M
Leave me so easily
@Bexsy they didn't love you right if they left easy. You're worth fighting for 🖤
Renkon · M
Sometimes people say they want honesty, to be told the truth directly and openly. But what they really seek is a sweetened version that aligns with what they hope to hear
@Renkon you have to be ready to hear it either way otherwise you're just pretending
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
I seem to always attract guys who really aren't that into me.
Renkon · M
@DearAmbellina2113 That’s just the strange mechanics of attraction, we often chase those who don’t want us because their distance feels like a challenge, not a rejection
Trying to get out of it...
Bang5luts · M
Finding one mostly right at the moment
Jexie · 26-30, F
I hate the walls too
@Jexie walls are for prisons

 
Post Comment