Why do men say such upsetting things without thinking?

My boyfriend sometimes tells me things he would say to his close buddy nd it’s something I don’t want to hear. I’m trying to get over it, but it’s so hard and I just got over an episode I was having. Maybe I should just be single for the rest of my life. 😭

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A7XBaby28 · 26-30, F

I have no idea. Had this kind of experience earlier today when I told a guy I wasn’t interested and have cancer he said he didn’t care and would just want to screw me.

Therealsteve · 31-35, M

@A7XBaby28 I had a lady yesterday tell me I'm a narcissist who isn't worth knowing because I told her that creating my charities involved me being selective with who I spend my time with, so that my limited time is spent only on people who want to and can help with serving other people. "You only befriend people who have something to give you, narcissist". I'd take creating services for people and having to be selective with who I spend time with over hiding behind a pc putting down charitable, successful people.