I was rejected

I get it. One time I was quietly rejected after having a great date with this guy I was really fond of. He was friends with some of my friends and family members (one of them actually set us up) and we were both the same culture too so we had lots in common. I thought I hit the jackpot cause he was so awesome - a gentleman for once - and also, he seemed to think I was awesome too. He even asked me out on another date right after the first and then we never went on the date and basically I never heard from him again. It was perplexing and kind of hurtful, so I tried a couple times to communicate with him without being pushy. He didn’t respond and seemed rather disconnected so I dropped it.

That was 11 years ago and I’m married now but it still makes me wonder wtf happened. Like, what did I do wrong???

The hurt party always remembers thing more fiercely, that's probably why he seems more casual about it.....lucky you, he was obviously not the right one for you!

I am sorry you feel this way. Even I am going through something like this and it isn't fun :(

The "what if's", the "if I only..", "if I could do it again I would..", "I wish..". These are the thoughts that get you into this state. Quit blaming yourself. Things happen, it doesn't always work out, you learned from it, now let it go. It isn't all your fault.

When your rejected it's God's protection.
Your hollow cause you gave it all and then you saw the other side .
That's what makes you hollow cause you turn it in on yourself . More or less it's to do with your self worth

It'll pass. It might be triggering you because he came up, but you'll feel better soon.

You will heal one day. I'm so sorry. 🫂♥

Rejection sucks and some people take it really hard. Especially if it was someone you really liked or that was special to you. Just allow yourself to feel the feelings as they come and they will go again. It’s okay 🩵

dont know anything about what u are talking about, but sometimes hard advice is the best advice. time to pull your big girl panties up and move on! 💪🏼

Remember your worth does not depend on someone else’s acceptance.