Do you believe in the Four Pillars of relationships

1 - money
2 - in-laws
3 - children
4 - religion

Apparently if you have consensus with your SO/spouse/wife/husdband/etc. your relationship has a 95 pct change of enduring.

I never heard of this until just today when I stumbled across a youtube video discussing the topic.

Do you feel the idea captures the bulk of what makes for a good (or bad) relationship?

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Gangstress · 41-45, F

Yes we have all that sorted tbh bar children as we dont have any.
Any relationship has compromise and sacrifice and i think people also need to remind themselves of that.
Relationships take work.

LILY61

@Gangstress none of my relationships were real. they all just wanted something. i think this is why i put up with all of my husband's bs

Gangstress · 41-45, F

@LILY61 if youre feeling like that im sorry
I would suggest thinking whether you should be married?
Because i do feel a lot of people just put up with others so theyre not lonely which goes against there happiness
I also want to remind others that its also ok to be single etvc

LILY61

@Gangstress after everything i went through in my life, i really just don't care anymore. i wanted to save the world from itself. but because of the horrible monsters in my life, i couldn't.

Gangstress · 41-45, F

@LILY61 its up to ourselves to find the higher place hun
No matter what age.
You can do this and live comfortable in contentment

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