Do you believe in the Four Pillars of relationships

1 - money
2 - in-laws
3 - children
4 - religion

Apparently if you have consensus with your SO/spouse/wife/husdband/etc. your relationship has a 95 pct change of enduring.

I never heard of this until just today when I stumbled across a youtube video discussing the topic.

Do you feel the idea captures the bulk of what makes for a good (or bad) relationship?

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Gangstress · 41-45, F

Yes we have all that sorted tbh bar children as we dont have any.
Any relationship has compromise and sacrifice and i think people also need to remind themselves of that.
Relationships take work.

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LILY61

@Gangstress after everything i went through in my life, i really just don't care anymore. i wanted to save the world from itself. but because of the horrible monsters in my life, i couldn't.

Gangstress · 41-45, F

@LILY61 its up to ourselves to find the higher place hun
No matter what age.
You can do this and live comfortable in contentment

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Kuronekko · 41-45, F

I mean it wasn't the main problem, but its hard to parent children when he was a child too. He never understood that he needed to be the bigger person.

Also the secret drinking didn't help.

Adogslife · 61-69, M

5 - Sex, though I wouldn’t consider “religion” a pillar. If you’re not compatible there, you’re likely not getting married.

LILY61

@Adogslife alot of people marry that aren't of the same beliefs...but i had forgot about sex

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@Adogslife I agree about sex. I don't remember what that's like or about anymore though.

LILY61

@zonavar68 i am certain that this is why i didn't list it. i had forgotten what it was like

LILY61

yes, then 5- food, 6- dog vs. cat , 7- activity interests , 8- energy levels

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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

@zonavar68 oh I'm dead certain it's political. Trump has crushed DEI. And ALL of that and more is in the document link that I posted.

He needs something to replace what he crushed.

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@DeWayfarer If I was to meet Trump I'd tell him that I identify as a black rainbow and see how he reacts. DEI is only a side-player in the concept of relationships and the ultra-high standards women apply then lose then minds when men apply their own high standards back at them.

DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

@zonavar68 and that's the problem with project2025!

Their idea of so called "lose standards" just so happens to match!

Coincidence? It certainly is not!

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