I'd actually celebrate both... the first because it's the date you started going out together.

The second as a symbol of how far you've come as a couple. You faced whatever and broke up, but you were able to talk it through and see that you still loved each other enough to work through the rough times.

In my experience, it's important for us to take stock of how we've grown as a person within a relationship - and that's an example of that. Usually, when we celebrate anniversaries, we only tend to focus more on a dinner and doing something nice together rather than making an effort to remember and appreciate how much we have grown individually and as a couple.

Idk whatever you like .. my hub and i met on the 9th 20 twenty years ago and tried to break up so many times it's not even funny anymore 😏 ah well.. good luck.. try to be nicer to each this time? 😊

Unless your married the number of years or the date are not as relevant especially to a man my wife after all these years remembers the date of our first date. In your case just say you known each other for 3 years

Keep the original, because it's not good to try to brush aside the struggles which all relationships go through. You would want to look back and see how things have progressed (or not progressed).

With my ex I would have gone to the original place and actually done what I should have done in the first place.
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I would say its an off and on 3 yr relationship...

If you mean an anniversary date.

Whichever you both agree to… the original date is not bad if you two kept in touch which apparently you did why complicate things like is already gonna throw enough curve balls anyways lol don’t make this one :)

I would say it was 1 year 10 months.... until the incident. Then just let people decide whether to ask lol

i would lay down ground ruleson day one

I'd say round one, round two... And counting

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