I always have said let the couple make their own decisions as to what they think is good for them.
I have been older by 10 years to younger by 7 years in relationships with women. I remain single to this day so I cannot say as to what works best.
I would have to meet a woman and see if we have compatibility and desire for each other and to take it from there.
Now me being 59 years old I really would not want to date a woman younger than 35 years of age; I do not have the time or patience to raise my date to an establish adult age and career and such.
