Do you think my boyfriend has something to hide because he changed his passcode after I went through his phone.

Do you think it’s because he doesn’t trust me or is he trying to hide something? It’s driving me crazy and he has every right to, but gosh dang it’s bothering me so I need to vent.

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being · 36-40, F

Okay.
Take SW for example. I'm sharing some innermost thoughts that I might not necessarily want to share with a potential boyfriend or girlfriend,
hiding something isn't necessarily a guilty avenue. Could be something private.

Even when in a relationship, it's best to keep some privacy, that's how I see it.

4meAndyou · F

@being All my life, at home, I was not allowed to close my bedroom door. My mother needed to peep at every single moment of my existence, and now that I am an adult, I CRAVE privacy. It can be VERY important!

being · 36-40, F

@4meAndyou I always give and expect some privacy. It's best when someone worries about me to talk to me directly.

I try to be clear so I can explain what is needed. Sometimes I just explain to another that I need some time to wind down, digest or integrate the day or at periods I might be researching things that interest me.
Keeping these private is like leaving the cake in the oven till it's baked. We know how, when opening the oven halfway, you're disturbing the process...