Her: "I just want you to chase me!" Me: "I can't chase someone who doesn't respect me."

I would suggest you run, she's doing that because she knows you'll always take her back.

No point in chasing someone who consistently bails.
If you could transition to just friends that might make things easier - but I have a feeling that she feels compelled or addicted to emotional games - some kind of unconscious thing.
It might be cleaner to make a complete break. Then at least you'd be free to find someone capable of sticking around and yet also interested in her own independent life.

At what point are you going to stop the madness.

Think about it.

This is a mess.

She's probably a narcissist.

Going deeper and deeper into a relationship with red flags, pondering doubts and whatever isn't going to make you happy or satisfied


I'm stuck here I know what I'm talking about

Don't have the door open. Break the cycle.

The push and pull is crazy. Some people do that because they think you'll always take them back no matter what. It's a good thing you don't tolerate disrespect, that will teach her a lesson.

Sounds like they are afraid of commitment or just need to do some growing up. I would suggest walking away.

Lol I thought Andrew Tate cured all men of this disease! No more simping!
Stop wasting your braincells on her.

Make sure the door don't hit her where the Good Lord split her. All those games they play

Close the door.