Her: "I just want you to chase me!" Me: "I can't chase someone who doesn't respect me."

It's a constant cycle: She shows up, then she bails. Then she shows up, and then she bails. I get we all have things going on in our lives, but I have my own mission in life and when she bails it seems like she doesn't respect that. Door's always open, but you'll forgive me if I opt to walk away from a disrespectful woman.

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luvelle · 22-25, F

The push and pull is crazy. Some people do that because they think you'll always take them back no matter what. It's a good thing you don't tolerate disrespect, that will teach her a lesson.

GohantheThird · M

@luvelle I hope so. We had a good thing for a long time, but we grew differently and she has a hard time accepting that. Hopefully she can be better and grow in her own way.