Her: "I just want you to chase me!" Me: "I can't chase someone who doesn't respect me."

It's a constant cycle: She shows up, then she bails. Then she shows up, and then she bails. I get we all have things going on in our lives, but I have my own mission in life and when she bails it seems like she doesn't respect that. Door's always open, but you'll forgive me if I opt to walk away from a disrespectful woman.

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hartfire

No point in chasing someone who consistently bails.
If you could transition to just friends that might make things easier - but I have a feeling that she feels compelled or addicted to emotional games - some kind of unconscious thing.
It might be cleaner to make a complete break. Then at least you'd be free to find someone capable of sticking around and yet also interested in her own independent life.