what is everyone’s standards in a relationship?

@BadAssTunaBotHoe that’s valid. wish i was the same.

@Rudboy41 people in their 20s are still stuck about about it. i don’t know why body count even matters to people. it’s not something i would ever ask someone about. i think maybe men that care so much are just scared of not being able to compare sexually to the woman’s past partners but that’s just a guess

@hollyyoung you're spot on, for men its stems from a deep insecurity, even if the count is low like she says she says "oh ive only been with two others before you",

we immediately ask ourselves two things (1) is she lying to not look like a hoe? (2) gosh she's had experience..what if its more than mine and what if im not as good in bed as her past lovers, if so will she treat this as a mistake?

-- because lets be honest, once we have our clothes off we are vunerable too, and those what ifs about size, performance etc creep in, especially if its a girl ive only been dating a short while, now she's seen me as the whole package...hows it gonna go after this?.. Thats what the body count thing was about for me as a guy.

Oh lastly, i almoat forgot, have a standard about one night stands, if im gonna have one the must be a possibility for at least two ons, otherwise i wont do it. Because it hurts like hell when i have one and she doesnt call again afterwards, then it feels like i was her mistake and that huuuurts like a red hot poker in my chest.

@Rudboy41 yeahh one night stands can be rough if you’re not built for that type of thing. but i wouldn’t take it personally if they don’t call back the next day, the whole point of a one night stand is that it’s one and done

@Submissiveiendencies 👌

@Submissiveiendencies most guys only have 1 cock.

@deathfairy words of wisdom

@AthrillatheHunt not by choice?

@hollyyoung you think gay guys ask to be gay ? My guy likes what he likes , and he won’t “perform” for someone he doesn’t like .

@AthrillatheHunt yea that’s fair

@ineedadrink like what

@hollyyoung No standards mean you may settle for less than your worth. It's not being arrogant, just self aware.

@ineedadrink i haven’t settled for anything yet

@vetguy1991 seems that’s impossible for most people

@hollyyoung its been my experience also

@deadteddy i do i just don’t always stick to them for the plot

@hollyyoung When a person sets up a place with pictures of you, etc. A shrine is a place to worship a deity, so it has been borrowed to describe, e.g., a board full of pictures of somebody.

@SomeMichGuy ohh right lolol well i like them obsessed in the sense they get jealous easy and are over protective. no stalker vibes that’s too far

@hollyyoung Good answer.

@SkeetSkeet fair

@Richard65 valid