Who should I choose!??!?! Everything started in my school. I'm in a section where we just level...

Guy 1 is out because he has made clear he isn't interested in you. That isn't a reflection on you — for whatever reason, you just don't do it for him. But he's still a friend, which isn't a bad thing.

Girl 2 is out, obviously, because you're not interested in a relationship with a girl. That's perfectly all right. But she's still a friend, which isn't a bad thing.

Guy 3 has possibilities, because he likes you, but as you say, he's perverted, and maybe that isn't something you're interested in. Maybe he only likes you because you're willing to at least play along with his perversions, or tolerate them. But he hasn't done the work necessary to develop an actual relationship with you. And he's remote, which rarely works out.

I think what you need to do is get out more in your local area and find people who might lead to the sort of relationship you want. None of the candidates you've listed are viable for a variety of reasons. You need to meet people, date them and see if you're compatible. If not, move on to the next. I know that's really difficult as we get older — you're moving into the middle-aged portion of life, and meeting people once you get there is so problematic. That just means you'll have to put in more work and effort to meet and date and evaluate relationships.

This is not unusual. Some people are really lucky and they just fall into a lifetime relationship. Most people, though, aren't. I'm sorry that you're experiencing this. I know from personal experience how frustrating and lonely it can be. Still, it's either putting in the work, or it's electing to remain alone (also a perfectly reasonable choice).

Good luck.

MissNoahLenFoxx · 31-35, F

Sounds like none of them are good choices and you should keep looking. Being in a relationship isn’t about being in a relationship, it’s about actually enjoying some one else’s company besides your own. @maydaynaka

ABCDEF7 · M

When you are looking for the love of your life, stop; they will be waiting for you when you start doing things you love.

Try meetup.com to meet like minded people near you.

Best Wishes :)