WHAT DO U TALK ABOUT IN THE TALKING STAGE

asking for a friend btw cause i’m useless but she’s talking to this guy she’s known of for quite a long time which she says makes it even more awkward to talk to him. so what kind of stuff would u talk about in a talking stage with someone you already kind of know? she already knows who his parents are, about his family, what he does for work so what can u bring up to start a convo?

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CookieCrisp · F

for me, i would be more on the direct side, like if i am looking to get in a relationship with a guy, how about talk about his current relationship status, issues he has had or that i have had in previous relationships that i would be looking to avoid in future ones

hollyyoung · 18-21, F

@CookieCrisp that’s what i said but she said she knows about all his past relationships n she’s never been in one

SW-User

@CookieCrisp Reasonable questioning, your honour 👩‍⚖️ 😌

Tonydang · M

Honestly the conversation should flow naturally if it’s right if it’s awkward it’s probably going to be that way always

hollyyoung · 18-21, F

@Tonydang she said they’re really comfortable with each other when they are drunk but he’s more shy when he’s sober

Tonydang · M

@hollyyoung fair enough it’s the alcohol that seems to be bringing his true self out alcohol is good for that

Pop88 · 36-40, M

Hopes, dreams, plans. This is the stage where you share your political and spiritual views and find your differences.

She could also just choose to move beyond the talking stage if she doesn't care about those things and start dating and getting physical.