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2. Does human instinct always predominate?

Let’s assume for one second that this scenario is possible and disregard reality. This is a fictitious scenario but I am still interested what people think about the possible outcome.

Two newborn, a boy and a girl, are left on a deserted island with absolutely no one taking care of them, talking to them, feeding them or educating them. In this fictitious scenario, they are able to find food, shelter, water and sleep, the 4 basic necessity for every human being.

Assuming again that those children have now reached puberty, are healthy, have no physical challenge except for the lack of parental love and affection. How would they develop?

Would their basic instinct take over, even though nobody ever told them, showed them or educated them?

Could they find love for each other? Would they know how to procreate since they have never had access to any visuals or sounds made by others?
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Docdon23 · M
Human infants take far longer to mature and become independent than most animals...in the scenario you describe it is doubtful they could survive and find food as newborns...but let's play along--assume perhaps an animal comes along to at least nurture them...we do have many instincts that are based on our long human history, and survival instincts could eventually kick in. I would also assume the two might become very interconnected to survive, and also become attached to any animals that helped or nurtured them...I would also think they would evolve as wild animals, fending for themselves, living off nature, with a focus on survival and basic needs--food, shelter, comfort...and probably also develop some communication skills unlike the languages we all learned, but more practical...they would probably far more independent and skilled than most of us, who are raised in the midst of all kinds of civilized institutions...
@Docdon23
I can assure you Docdon23, that human babies being raised by wild animals in theory as you've previously suggested in this thread, has absolutely nothing to do with creating a parallel between Einstein and his Theory of Relativity, nor is that analogy you made even close for the case you're trying your best to construct with @Stephie. Try again, Doc.
Stephie · F
@swirlie There are documented cases of single humans being raised or adopted by animals. However, I am not aware of any case where several humans were adopted by the same animal.

Furthermore, in my hypothetical question, there is no mention of animals. The answer by @Docdon23 simply suggests that this could be a plausible scenario, to which I simply stated that his answer was one of the most plausible one among the ones I received on this question.
@Stephie
Very well.
BlackPetals · 18-21, F
Wow. Something to really make your brain go "Hmmmmm......" I think God has instilled a basic instinct for us to know, feel and show love. I think and feel they could find love and would know how (or even to figure it out) to procreate. Deserted islands usually have animals. They probably watched some of them procreate. 🤔
Stephie · F
@BlackPetals Yes, age is a number and some people don't reach the maturity of an 18 year old even when they are 40.
BlackPetals · 18-21, F
@Stephie Yes. You're right. They're called MEN. 🤣
Stephie · F
@BlackPetals Actually, men (or boys/teenagers) tend to be 2-3 years less mature than a woman of the same age. That maturity tends to disappear by the mid-twenties but some actually never grow past childhood.
thrash · 31-35, M
i feel like... in a situation like this—where there is only 1 boy and 1 girl—anything can happen. instincts can dominate, or not. whatever. but once the population grows, then human instincts kick in/show/become relevant: these instincts exist for a reason: they helped our ancestors blah blah blah and now we're here, with these instincts (that helped our ancestors): our ancestors had to deal with environments that included (challenges etc) other humans (more than 1), and the instincts helped them (the ones with unhelpful instincts probably didn't get to pass on their genes/instincts). so...once the population get s big enough, instincts will be relevant again (just my intuition talking)
Captain · 61-69, M
I think they have to copulate. It may be traumatic for them, and they won't have an emotional supportinve shoulders to cry on, but it has to happen. Maybe they'll generate a genetic freak with gills that can swim away to get them help and rescue them - but yes - I think they defo mate.
Stephie · F
@Captain That's what I am not so sure about. A lot of factors could affect the way they behave with each other. The diet they are subjected to, whether they discover and use fire, whether they have to waste all their energies for survival or even if the one or the other sibling is gay or not.

If you also take into account the so-called "Westermarck Effect", also known as reverse sexual imprinting, that is a psychological hypothesis that states that people tend not to be attracted to peers with whom they lived like siblings before the age of six.
Captain · 61-69, M
@Stephie I hear what you say, that's why I think it might be traumatic, but logic tells me if we got through the mitochondrial eve bottleneck as a (much mutated) species, you leave two individuals togther long enough and they will mate. No one will ever have done that experiemnt of humans but it wouod be interesting to see if its been done on rats or cats. I did experimental psychology as a second year option and no one had done it by then, I think controls will be even stricter now, but bonobobs will copulate with anyone eles eat all and they are our closest relatives remember.
Captain · 61-69, M
@Stephie So I just googled it - as you do - and "in general" is the term used in every response I have seen, "in general' means that under extreme conditions mamals will inbreed so I am going to stick with my first answer. When it comes to the 4 Fs the limbic system is on control and we often react instinctively in sexually excited conditons not rationally.
This scenario reminds me of an old movie from 1980 .💁🏼‍♂
The Blue Lagoon
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0080453/
Stephie · F
@Yourwildestdreams I never saw that movie though.
@Stephie Perhaps it might give you insight to the question 😀.
Justausualguy41 · 31-35, M
About the procreation part, maybe they can explore each other's parts in between the legs, it can start with simple touch, the woman can play with his thing and she how his body reacts, just because of sheer curiosity and the man can choose to smell and finger her pussy and spread her labia wide to see what's inside. This play can lead to a conclusion where they might experiment with penetration.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
If they survived that long, yes
pdockal · 56-60, M
Our basic instincts would kick in
Without society's manipulation they would develop naturally
They would procreate as that's a basic instinct
EagerDaddy · 46-50, M
@Stephie There is hardly conclusive evidence for the existence of the Westmarck Effect. It might be mostly wishful thinking of a society wanting to keep incest taboo.
Stephie · F
@EagerDaddy You cannot have hard evidence as such cases are not possible. Any conclusion can only be based on hypothesis and wild guesses.
EagerDaddy · 46-50, M
@Stephie Yes, and often influenced by the opinions of the person postulating the hypothesis.
chilloutab2 · 46-50, M
Firstly, newborn humans cannot survive without being taken care of, so there may be a fault in your starting premise.

Ok, given that they are not newborn but at an age that they can fend for themselves, it's still not certain by any means that they would be able to find food and water or build a shelter. If they did manage to do any of these, it would be by sheer luck. The highest chances are that they would be malnourished and die from either malnourishment or diseases due to underdeveloped immune systems.

If they did manage to survive until puberty and are somehow healthy, then lack of parental love and supervision, and lack of contact wiht other humans or a society would likely make then more violent than normal humans towards each other, which would manifest as actual physical violence from the boy towards the girl and withholding of resources from the girl towards the boy (each fighting with what natural weapons they have). Again, this is assuming that there is no moderating material in their genetics. If they are high-IQ individuals, then they could even be compassionate towards each other... because compassion is a function of IQ.

If they reach puberty, their basic instincts would definitely take over and sex would happen ultimately, firstly as a simple exploration of the differences of each other's post-pubescent bodies, and then actual sex as they get to know their own and the other's bodies. Arousal would happen during the simple exploratory phase, which would be instantly visible in the boy. This would intrigue both and further exploration would ensue. When periods start for the girl, this would further heighten the intrigue for both, and lead to more exploration. All this would ultimately lead to sex, as this is a natural instinct that does not need to be taught.

If sex happens and they are healthy, then they would procreate. And if the girl delivered a baby successfully and survived, then that's where love would begin... as another natural and basic instinct of loving your offspring would take over. This is the beginning of love and through the love for their offspring, the two individuals would start developing love for each other.

However, the entire scenario is highly unlikely, because if two humans that are so young are thus deserted, they would not survive.
Stephie · F
@chilloutab2 That is why I stated that it was more of a hypothetical scenario when I mentioned that those newborn were stranded on an island. I am fully aware that they would not survive if it was to be in a real life situation.

Nevertheless, thank you for you detailed insight and explanations.
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This sounds like a classic discussion question from the late 19th century; men in their clubs reading the news, smoking cigars / pipes, drinking, dining/having tea, and discussing matters of both real and speculative natures...

Assuming that your givens result in them getting to puberty, I think the sex drive and curiosity could easily create a situation where they would discover copulation, and eventually get the girl pregnant.

I would classify that as a broad instinct across most any species, not confined only to humans.

[Whether or not the birth is successful is a different matter.]



An important aspect of note in the "Nature v. nurture" discussions is that the rôle of the individual's own determination / drive is typically ignored, in spite of being a really important third element (moldable by both Nature and nurture), a non-trivial oversight.
Stephie · F
@SomeMichGuy That would be interesting to find a scientific article about procreation instincts. I don't think that PornHub is a good reference here.
@Stephie Not sure where THAT's coming from, but the assumption that the first sign of Homo is a sudden cutting of the cord with Nature seems pretty improbable.
Stephie · F
@SomeMichGuy you are most likely correct.
KiwiBird · 36-40, F
So Brother and Sister or completely unrelated? The answer may well determine expected outcomes.
Stephie · F
@KiwiBird My bad. I should have been more specific and now allow for potential conflicts ☹️
KiwiBird · 36-40, F
@Stephie Not at all. Those in doubt should just seek clarification.
@Stephie
Not really Stephie, the way you worded it was fine with me. I offered at least two different scenarios which included the infants as being biological siblings or being adopted siblings living within the same circumstance you outlined. It's all good! Read my detailed piece to see how either scenario would play out in the real world.
Ontheroad · M
They would, I think, at an early age become partners/friends/companions and as time went on, their natural instincts would prevail. I don't think they would necessarily fall in love (the classic love), but I do think they would bond and raise children free from any taboos society puts on us.
Captain · 61-69, M
@Ontheroad Now that would assume a normal family situation with parents but in this case the two would be as strangers, as there is no nuclear family. No one to force them to co-operate would mean they would behave as though they were strangers so learned experience wouldn't matter.Also they may grow up to be very similar or very different but probably feel about that the same way as non siblings would. So being siblings genetically wont matter as they dont know how similar or different they should be. Even if they had mirrors and could see similarities between each other, they would have no idea of the diversity of human form and therefore no benchmark under which to judge themselves to similar. It all points to the same outcome whether siblings or not. When the time comes they would mate - or any two randomers in the same position would also not mate. They dont know they are related because of the construct of the experiment so the question is will any two children growing up on a desert island mate or not and I reckon sooner or later he's going to get into her palm leaves as they say ! Now if there was a buffet bar conveyer belt out to sea with a constant flow of same age diverse children passing by i think it doesn't matter whether they are related or not. I think they would still go to the "all you can pull" bar and pick a meal from there - but then by definition they would be able to escape, and no doubt would. JMHO.
OldBrit · 61-69, M
Look at what happens in nature around us...

You have two lions bred in captivity and kept in zoos. They are put together and... Lion cubs.

There must be some basic procreative force. We humans with our "intelligence" have so screwed ourselves up over it and love and society etc we've forgotten it.

But in your hypothetical example I feel that yes that they would mate.
Richard65 · M
Check literature on The Westermarck effect, also known as reverse sexual imprinting. It is a psychological hypothesis that states that people tend not to be attracted to peers with whom they lived like siblings before the age of six. This hypothesis was first proposed by Finnish anthropologist Edvard Westermarck in his book The History of Human Marriage (1891) as one explanation for the incest taboo.
Stephie · F
@Richard65 That sounds highly interesting. This is something I might want to read. Thanks for the tip.
Reject · 31-35, M
Being “civilized” came from people discovering less need for instinct within developed societies. So I imagine those kids would be very instinctual initially, but if they developed far enough, they would have less need of those instincts.
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Stephie · F
@sarabee1995 It's an interesting perspective and I did think a long time before posting that question, knowing that it may be conflicting just like my other question about sexual surrogacy.

There is a theory called the "Westermarck Effect" that in essence states that siblings do have a natural "disgust" to be intimate with each other if they have been together before a given age.

Of course, in my scenario, this is hypothetical because I did not specify of those newborns were siblings or not.
SWUser123987 · 51-55, M
Making to that age of puberty they would definitely figure things out, both will discover their erogenous zones and discover they are a good fit and will procreate
SWUser123987 · 51-55, M
@Stephie you think they would know what the meaning of being related
Stephie · F
@SWUser123987 No, they would not know but their DNA would be pushing them apart rather than bringing them together.
SWUser123987 · 51-55, M
@Stephie interesting. Is that a theory of fact? PM me?
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
Pretty much the same thing has happened in the animal world so yes they would without any education couple.
SeekingConnection · 61-69, M
I'm pretty certain they would work out what to do without too much trouble. They might not know how to do it without instruction (nobody does until they're told, do they?), but their arousal and natural fascination with each other's bodily-parts would soon lead them to the answer.

Having said that, I've known plenty of women to complain that various male partners had no idea what they were doing, so maybe it's not quite as obvious as I'm suggesting!
SeekingConnection · 61-69, M
@Stephie Ah, I see your point. I have to say I'm not sure that them being siblings would prevent them from doing it though. For one thing, if they arrived there as newborns, how would they know they were siblings?
Stephie · F
@SeekingConnection they might not know it but the information is stored in their DNA
JohnS79 · 61-69, M
I agree! I have only one sibling left and she was my enemy growing up. Although I covered for her sneaking out and took bribes. I was my deceased sisters baby but always thought any intimacy would be gross. But that was in the old days when I was thinking of sex. Good old yester year. Well at least 420 is legal and has replaced all intimacy@Stephie
An interesting thought experiment. Providing they survive to puberty they would procreate. We are preprogrammed to do so. We are but vehicles to transport our dna and spread our seed. I'm sure some form of psychological and physical dependence would develop, you could call this love if you wish.
Stephie · F
@Majorlatency I am not 100% convinced because so many factors may inhibit those basic instincts.

Survival instinct may predominate, differences in characters, quest for food and other primary necessities such as shelter may drive them apart in this context.

Just look at the reality show "Naked and Afraid". Even though everything is staged, the true nature of individuals comes to light and extended periods alone will lead to conflicts rather than to peace.
@Stephie Thank you for your quick reply. Survival shows have an outcome where the contestants know they will return to normality. The drive to partner is diminished. They will return to their normal "happy" lives.. If there are just two people in your experiment, I believe that would have an overbearing influence on the outcome. Humans have survived for thousands of years through our ability to connect, communicate, and cooperate with each other. It is an instinctive bias to the outcome..
Deserthiker · 61-69, M
Apparently. Some people responding cannot deal with the hypothetical.
Interesting. They would probably develope some form of communication. I believe there would be some attraction.
Definitely lots of experimenting and exploring
Stephie · F
@Deserthiker the most likely scenario, at least when it comes to communication.

As for the rest, it would be interesting to have the opinion of a behavioral specialist but the likelihood that their sexual hormones would dictate a course of action once they reach puberty is quite a possibility.
Deserthiker · 61-69, M
@Stephie Yes. There would definitely be some sort of sexual response. Interesting
@Stephie
I've already answered this for you as a behavioral specialist, Stephie. Look at what I wrote further into your thread, dated July 23rd 2024.
eMortal · M
They will probably see animals mate. That's enough to give them a clue.
funfan · 51-55, M
Stephie, that is a truly fascinating conundrum (for lack of a better word) you posted circa 6 weeks ago. 👏 Quite detailed as well. My quick thought is also that instinct would be predominant. Hopefully, you will publish more like this in the future.
Stephie · F
@funfan Thanks for the kind words. I am contemplating posting similar post that are directly related to human behavior and psychology, which are topics that do interest me.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
See various societies like the Click Language of the San Bushmen People:

[media=https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=c246fZ-7z1w]

See on YouTube if this is private:

m.youtube.com/watch?v=c246fZ-7z1w

Or the Zo' é tribe of Brazil

[media=https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=zYutcG14C7c]

https://pib.socioambiental.org/en/Povo:Zo'%c3%a9

In addition to the Link I gave on blue lagoon.

Sociologist take it from the neanderthal point of view.

Neither of the above never had neanderthal DNA! We do!

And here is some DNA evidence about some of the people in South America. Australia of all places...

https://www.science.org/content/article/ancient-dna-confirms-native-americans-deep-roots-north-and-south-america
Stephie · F
@DeWayfarer Very interesting links. I have to look at them when I have a little more time and not being disturbed.
They will develop their own language and will be able to communicate with only each other. Men and women have procreated hundreds of centuries before sex education and visual aids, they will probably be OK
I'm guessing they would figure things out and, like most humans, seek each other's company.
ArtieKat · M
Probably, innate behaviour. Have you ever seen the movie "Blue Lagoon", Stephie?
Stephie · F
@ArtieKat Actually, my thought was based on what could have been from movie Blue Lagoon but I have never seen it myself.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@Stephie https://archive.org/details/d-bluelagoon-1080p

It's free to watch online or download.
Ynotisay · M
It's an entirely implausible scenario but yeah. Their behavior would be entirely instinctual. Just like every animal. Because humans are animals.
Stephie · F
@Ynotisay You are probably right. It would be interesting to have the point of view of a human behavior specialist.
daydeeo · 61-69, M
I'm pretty sure that nature would take its course....
Court69 · M
Yes they would for sure
dale74 · M
Well you definitely need to change it from newborn to toddler his newborn is definitely cannot find food on their own but if there were some goats or something like that some other animal May nurse the newborn
Court69 · M
I'm betting well before puberty they are becoming intimate sibling matter not when there is only the two of them, no other thersmon to cantend with
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Stephie · F
@EagerDaddy You grew up with your siblings in a totally different environment and already exposed to pornographic content, even in the early 1990s when magazines and video tapes/DVDs were readily available everywhere.

As I already mentioned it elsewhere, there is a theory called the "Westermarck Effect" that in essence states that siblings do have a natural "disgust" to be intimate with each other if they have been together before a given age.
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antonioioio · 70-79, M
You have a fascinating mind for someone so young
Stephie · F
@antonioioio being young does not mean being superficial 🤨
antonioioio · 70-79, M
@Stephie true
antonioioio · 70-79, M
@Stephie i would never suggest that your not a serious young person
antonioioio · 70-79, M
They would explore each other by touching and develop from their
Or if their was animals on the island and get ideas from them
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masterofyou · 70-79, M
I would hope the would always have love in their hearts and enjoy each other sexually and have children. And somehow show love and affection for their offspring....
Stephie · F
@masterofyou I am not certain that this would always be possible. It was not specified if those newborn were siblings or not. That might affect the outcome
masterofyou · 70-79, M
@Stephie i really realize that princess too much hate and evil in the world..

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Stephie · F
@masterofyou Thanks for the rose, I have to find a vase that is appropriate for it before it wilts.
DDonde · 31-35, M
I think instinct would dominate there, yeah.
I wonder if they'd be able to speak to each other though, since they didn't acquire a first language as children.
Stephie · F
@DDonde I am pretty sure that they would develop some kind of verbal communication, be it grunts or even imitating sounds from birds or other wildlife.

I would think that they would more likely communicate through gestures and mimics.
ArtieKat · M
@DDonde That's an interesting point about language
VisionQuest · 51-55, M
Love, or at least attraction, and procreation will always happen naturally.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
You know, it's interesting that you ask this. I thought I read somewhere about a Nazi experiment, the records of which I cannot currently locate. Allegedly, according to my memory of what I thought I read, they took a group of children from their parents at the earliest possible age they could without them dying of loneliness, then raised them in a room with nothing but each other for company. All their needs were met. There were enough beds for all of them, there was always enough food provided, albeit without any human contact other than each other. They did not want for anything, and so you would think they would be content and happy. But according to what I read, they became violent. The experiment ended when one of the children killed another.
Stephie · F
@LordShadowfire That is also interesting. I guess I am not the only one that wonders what would happen and I am certain that psychiatrists have studied that scenario in detail and probably published papers on the results.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
@Stephie Which is why I'm frustrated at the moment that I can't find any details of it. I swear I read about it. Oh well. Nothing a little more research can't fix.
ArtieKat · M
@LordShadowfire The violence sounds like "Lord Of The Flies" - admittedly they were in their early teens
As a behavioral specialist I can say that NO, basic instinct would NOT predominate and NO, they could NOT find love for each other and finally, yes, they would intuitively know how to procreate as two human beings but NO, they would NOT feel naturally inclined to procreate with each other. Keep in mind that humans have intuition, not instinct. Only animals have instinct, but animals do not have intuition.

The reason the answers above are "NO" is because of the boy/girl biological connection with each other as biological siblings. The biological connection we have with siblings and bio-parents is Nature's way of diverting us away from acts of incest.

That is why girls hate their biological brothers and why girls suddenly begin to hate their biological father as the girl approaches puberty.

IF on the other hand the brother and sister were adopted within the family or at least one of them was adopted, then all of my "NO" answers above would immediately turn to "YES".

If a girl was adopted into a family and her Dad was not her biological father, she would NOT feel naturally repelled at the sight of her adoptive Dad as she approached the age of puberty and therefore, would not feel naturally repelled from any sexual advances he might make toward her.

This occurs because of the absence of that natural, biological connection between the two of them which otherwise would be Nature's deterrent for incest to occur between father and his otherwise biological daughter.

A biological father to a daughter feels a natural sexual repulsion involving his biological daughter, but would NOT feel a natural sexual repulsion to a non-biological girl who was the same age as his biological daughter.
@ArtieKat
My own.
KiwiBird · 36-40, F
@swirlie Nowhere is it stated that they are biological siblings.
@KiwiBird
That is correct, which is also why I offered at least two different scenarios of what will happen in any of those scenarios. I started out with the base-assumption of them being biological siblings, then altered course for a different scenario that could be presented under the same conditions the OP outlined from the outset.
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