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He got upset because I posted a selfie on my story saying I was high asf

He told me to delete because it was weird of me saying that? Idk. Didn’t even make sense to me.

We’ve only been dating for 2 weeks. Is this the first red flag?
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SatanBurger · 36-40, F
Yes it's a red flag. He doesn't like you posting selfies because he knows that other men look at them, a sign of insecurity. I mean I can't tell you what to do but watch for him escalating things with you. Maybe I'm wrong and he proves you wrong but that's my opinion and it's of my opinion that he most likely will.
Daviszabecki · 56-60, M
Do you even have to ask? Huge red flag, already wanting to control. Ditch!
SW-User
That happened to me. Next he hacked all my social media accounts and emails. Get rid.
AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
@SW-User What!
SW-User
@AnonymousJSS yeah. Obviously this might be an extreme example but jealousy and control has no place in a healthy relationship
SW-User
I would say possibly
LilRedGod · 31-35, M
Yah means he's controlling and thinking's he can tell you what to do at all times and shows he is jealous or have self esteem issues. But I mean it it your story! But I did something like that to my ex a few months back when we was at a bar and she just started talking out loud about all the drugs she did then was like oo weed oo weed omg they have weed. And I'm just like ahhh we ain't gotta be drawing attention to them are that and don't need to be talking about drugs rn pretty much telling her to drop the drug topic. Sadly we wasn't even talking about it and either way I probably was in the wrong for it being out first date and shooting pool. But I felt it was not called for to be talked about in public like she was saying it. But idk it's ur story tho so he shouldn't have any say in it. If so then he might lead to wanting to be in your phone looking through everything 24/7 cause he probably has trust issues as well.
Bobby2905 · 26-30, M
Definitely. Two weeks of dating and his already trying to control you
All depends on your understanding of life and roles. I have seen girls who like such control and like the authority and also seen those who don't.

But all depends how pricey he is a catch for you and how precious he is. You can end it if you feel you can find another better one easily. Also I know of gals who simply surrender and succumb since they are not confident to find another.
HumanEarth · F
That Red Flag is control issues
Controlling behaviour should always be a red flag.

If he doesn't like you posting pictures 2 weeks in - how long before he doesn't like your family and friends???
Midlifemale · 61-69, M
Definitely a red flag in that short of time.
He's starting to take control already 👎
Mudkip · 31-35, M
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
He has no say in what you post
BatmanIRL · T
This is a red flag of red flags
Penny · 46-50, F
honestly, as intrusive as it might be. its smart to not to post stuff like that for work related concerns though this does make him sound like hell be very controlling
SW-User
Big one.

If he doesnt like you sharing your photos or life, move on
Bang5luts · M
Yes. Jealous
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
First flag? That's a whole store full of them.
NinaTina · 31-35, F
Time to get higher and leave him on the ground floor
AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
@NinaTina You think so
NinaTina · 31-35, F
@AnonymousJSS was no call for what he said
empanadas · 31-35, M
If both of you smoke weed, yeah it's definitely a red flag. If he is the straight and clean type that doesnt do drugs, it could be he doesnt like you posting while under the influence. Either way it's not a good thing
AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
@empanadas He smokes even more than me
empanadas · 31-35, M
@AnonymousJSS run tf away. Huge red flags
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