Today my ex asked me if he can take me out for a coffee. I dont know if I should go or not. I haven't felt human touch in months. And what if he hugs me? I know he misses me. I just dont know anymore
Depends on how relationship broke off. Do you like to keep in touch? Do you hope relationship between you two can mend? Many things like that to think and then decide. Hope you take the right decision. Decide if you want to go and if you will feel comfortable with your ex.
He is your ex for a reason. Good reasons. Do not go. Do not contact him. You are vulnerable and you will fall back into a mess for that reason. Get outside. Do something healthy. Have a good day.
Oh. I dont even know anymore. I was with him for so long. Had our fair share of bullship over the years. Love is always there on a familial level. Attraction, its more of a comfort and knowing. When I dont want him, he wants me. Its nuts. I did move on and it bothered him. I use to want him to care. I found someone else that set my soul on fire but it didn't work out because I pursued him instead of letting him pursue me. So do you just go back to the familiar, or do you keep rowing the boat and be open to meeting someone new. Life's questions that have no answers until you arrive. I think I'm going to keep rowing. If I go with him, Im probably going to end up back in his bed and will feel bad to leave again
There must have been a good reason for him to become your ex. You haven't changed. He hasn't changed. You're the same two people who chose to break up, and you'll have the same problems if you get back together. Instead, go out and find "Mr. Right."
Sounds like you guys broke it off and still keep in contact... if thats the case and you are thinking of getting back together then go for it. Too many unanswered questions to give any kind of good advice on this... :-) good luck
I tend to think that ex's get that status for a reason and that's not a ledge I've ever seen anyone climb back up from but I can completely understand your motivation for considering it.