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Would you go?

Today my ex asked me if he can take me out for a coffee. I dont know if I should go or not. I haven't felt human touch in months. And what if he hugs me? I know he misses me. I just dont know anymore
For me, if I want an ex to remain an ex, there’s no contact. But it depends on the individual, what they can handle, and what they want.
HumanEarth · F
No, I wouldn't do it.

The ex knows how to get into your head, and this goes for everyone reading this. Male or female, both play mind games. Once an ex, keep them an ex.
Nick1 · 61-69, M
Depends on how relationship broke off. Do you like to keep in touch? Do you hope relationship between you two can mend?
Many things like that to think and then decide.
Hope you take the right decision.
Decide if you want to go and if you will feel comfortable with your ex.
He is your ex for a reason. Good reasons. Do not go. Do not contact him. You are vulnerable and you will fall back into a mess for that reason. Get outside. Do something healthy. Have a good day.
Sevendays · M
I wouldn't go out with my ex. She's an ex for a reason
Justgirl · 36-40, F
Oh. I dont even know anymore. I was with him for so long. Had our fair share of bullship over the years. Love is always there on a familial level. Attraction, its more of a comfort and knowing. When I dont want him, he wants me. Its nuts. I did move on and it bothered him. I use to want him to care. I found someone else that set my soul on fire but it didn't work out because I pursued him instead of letting him pursue me. So do you just go back to the familiar, or do you keep rowing the boat and be open to meeting someone new. Life's questions that have no answers until you arrive. I think I'm going to keep rowing. If I go with him, Im probably going to end up back in his bed and will feel bad to leave again
BigBulge · 41-45, M
There must have been a good reason for him to become your ex. You haven't changed. He hasn't changed. You're the same two people who chose to break up, and you'll have the same problems if you get back together. Instead, go out and find "Mr. Right."
black4white · 56-60, M
Sounds like you guys broke it off and still keep in contact... if thats the case and you are thinking of getting back together then go for it. Too many unanswered questions to give any kind of good advice on this... :-) good luck
I tend to think that ex's get that status for a reason and that's not a ledge I've ever seen anyone climb back up from but I can completely understand your motivation for considering it.
wonkywinky · 51-55, M
Why is he your ex?look at why you broke up and take it from there.
If you really cant stand him then avoid,but if it was trivial then why not?
PoeticPlay · 51-55, M
Nope.

Can't do it.

I already know what I needed to know in order to make a very confident choice about how I am about to proceed.
blackarcher256 · 61-69, M
Depends on the reasons they are an ex….. For myself, I would choose my own company, than to be with someone that didn’t want to be with me.
SW-User
That would depend if I still had feelings and if I wanted to act on them.
SW-User
I personally wouldnt go. Feeling lonely isnt a good enough reason.
@SW-User right
SW-User
The flesh wants what it wants at the end of the day. Depends on why we broke up
invisiblewoman · 36-40, F
I wouldn't go with your ex but maybe with mine i would
looping · 18-21
i personally wouldn't. he's your ex for a reason right?
losthorizons · 51-55, M
I’ll take you so as to take the temptation off
Bowenw · 61-69, M
For me it would depend on why we split up.
@Bowenw I agree
fanuc2013 · 51-55, F
Go ahead and go with him! He may want to make amends.
He is your EX for a reason, isn´t he ? Think about that.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
No I would not.
Remind yourself of why he is your ex...
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
When in doubt, don’t
Sweetpoison · 41-45, F
Don’t do it

 
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