What are the red flags/deal breakers that you don't want in a relationship?

For me, it's DEFINITELY women with an OnlyFans account. From what I've heard and what I've seen, it's best and safe to say that it's a turn off and I stay clear of them. I'm sure most guys wouldn't like this, either. It's a boundary that a woman I want to be with shouldn't cross, as she'll only get ONE chance to respect it. One...

And if I were to be with her and find out that she has OnlyFans, I'll give her the ultimatum: lose the account, or you'll lose me.

Last time I asked this question, I got a lot of backlash because of this deal breaker: dating single moms. I guess a guy's preference, with logical reasons, are red flags apparently. 🤦🏾‍♂️

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SandWitch · 26-30, F

When the guy who takes me out on a date shows interest in the same guys that I'm attracted to as they walk past.

zonavar68 · 51-55, M

@SandWitch Ewww. The idea is that you would maybe notice other guys but take no action if you're on a date with someone. ;-) I guess the same can be said of dating a woman and she gets more interested in other women instead of you.

SandWitch · 26-30, F

@zonavar68
What you're saying is absolutely true when the shoe's on the other foot. It's also very un-cool for the guy who takes me out on a date, if he notices me staring at other guys as they walk past which is why it's imperative that women do not make their interest in other guys obvious.

zonavar68 · 51-55, M

@SandWitch What's funny is that at my work (rail freight) most of the women are lesbians and when I work with them it's really fun to check out women and see what they think of my observations and vice-versa. But being lesbian they will never date me, so it's 'safe' fun.

SandWitch · 26-30, F

@zonavar68
Women can be brutal toward other women!