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RebeccaJP · 36-40, F
If you’ve only been talking for a short time, then yes
RebeccaJP · 36-40, F
@sugarpie if it’s been 2 months maybe you could ask them why they said/did it, if you’re comfortable to do that. Or if it’s a huge boundary and really bothers you to the point that you don’t want to discuss, you could just ghost them I think. Good luck ❤️
sugarpie · 26-30, F
@RebeccaJP I asked him and he just said "because I wanted to"
RebeccaJP · 36-40, F
@sugarpie that’s definitely someone who doesn’t care about your feelings. Ghost away, and don’t feel guilty!

twistedrope · 26-30, M
I wouldn't ghost someone for that reason. I'd say something like "That makes me incredibly uncomfortable and I don't wish to continue this conversation." I don't get enough opportunities to assert myself and its a skill worth training. I also get to be myself even when uncomfortable.

The end result is similar in that I don't talk with the person but I get to say how i feel.
sugarpie · 26-30, F
@twistedrope Got a point
gmgun · 36-40, M
I see no reason why not. A line was set. The line was crossed. No need to continue. Respect is gained/lost but never owed.
Cinderella1day · 26-30, F
Yes because you told him and he’s not listening and he’s not going to listen. 🤷‍♀️ what’s the point. It’s a lesson.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
I've never had a problem with ghosting or being ghosted.
Umile · 41-45, F
💯

Make them stand on it.

Especially if they've been forewarned.
travelguy01 · 41-45, M
If they are behaving like a narcissist and refuse to stop, there may be no other choice. Narcissists don’t care about your feelings or how their actions affect you, they just believe that they need to continue using you to make themselves feel better about their own deep insecurities. You can tell them that you’ve decided to sever the relationship completely and then leave it at that.
poisonivy · 36-40, F
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GunFinger · F
Without second thoughts, yes.
what do you think?
sugarpie · 26-30, F
@deathfairy I feel guilty. But he's not stopping
you feel guilty that you are not honoring yourself. @sugarpie
Without batting an eye, yes.

 
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