I want to whole-heartedly thank every man out there that's had a vasectomy.

@NCCindy I have the scars to prove it. Lol

@Sojournersoul If you fumble around my balls you can feel the cauterised ends; if you have nice gentle hands I'll let you do it, if you're rough I'll find it first and you get 3 seconds to confirm then you're out.

@GeniUs thanks for the offer but not my kind of thing. Sorry

@Sojournersoul @Sojournersoul it's ok it doesn't have to be you you can delegate somebody, I like small warm hands the best.

@NCCindy but how would you prove it?

@ronisme1 see my post above I can find both ends of the tubes. I'd be interested if anybody else who has had the snip can do this too.

@NCCindy I know for a fact...LOL

@GeniUs only 1 end and it hurts to press that hard

@NCCindy have experience with that?

@Howudoin Nope !!!

@Howudoin Yes, now they have a kid.

@pancakeslam My kids were 100% planned.

Also the reason that, while I wasn't a virgin when I got married, the only guy who has actually been bare with me is my husband.

@NCCindy that is very wise. I wouldn't recommend unprotected intercourse with any male lacking the proper surgical documentary evidence.

@GeniUs very unlikely.

@NCCindy I haven't had the snip but my dating and sexing days of anyone under the age of 40 are well and truly over as a 56 y/o guy who fears dating like the plague. 8-) I have children (3 x adult + my 7 y/o) and don't date or have any sexual/intimate interactions with anyone.