This guy hurt me so incredibly much and I told him through text how much he hurt me and I cry a lot. I asked him have you cried? His response was I’m not going to answer that. What does that mean?
@slorollinalso some just like to guilty shift They know they've done something to make you feel terrible but at the end they'll try their very best to make you feel otherwise Like it's you who hurted them all this time and sometimes I end believing 🙇♀️
It can mean anything. It is tempting to try figure out the nuances of their behaviour, but it is all second guessing and it is always with our own perspective - not their reality.
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I do. Sometimes at the drop of a hat. For example, I cannot watch cruelty to animals TV spots for that very reason.