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Does your significant other have a problem with you using Similar worlds?

My husband kinda finds this site sketchy and always has something to say. But the thing is I been on EP since 12 and on here after EP shut down. I had a lot happen to me on EP due to being a minor and I was groomed a lot to the point where the police got involved when I was 14 because of a Pedo on the site and the whole situation was really traumatizing for me. I healed a lot since then and I still love how I'm able to post so freely here and feel like I'm just posting into the void. He doesn't get it he just is like "the site is sketchy" like shut up :( it makes me sad because we moved states and I am taking a break from instagram and Snapchat. So the only time I see people are when friends come to visit or at the gym and sometimes we'll grab coffee after. But still I like this site it helps me feel less alone. I haven't used this website in a while either and I was telling him about it today and he just totally shut it down idk. Like I know he's just looking out for me but it's just pretty annoying how he doesn't even attempt to understand why I'm even on here to begin with. It isn't a big deal it's just like what it is but he makes me feel weird for being on here idk. It's the one issue I have in our relationship so it's not really a big deal it's just frustrating esp since it's been about a decade being on EP -> SW

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Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

Everyone who calls out your bullshit is getting their messages deleted. You have shared where you live, you have shared how you look. And you have noooo clue why your partner are worried about how you use this site? 🤦🏻‍♀️

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LordShadowfire · 46-50, M

@Queendragonfly Yeah, I only came here to point out how fucked up it was that a certain user was blaming the parents of children when children get exposed to abusive content online, but yeah. This.

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@LordShadowfire Of course the parents have a responsibility to make sure their kids stay safe. But she's adult now...🙄

LittleBallOfFire · 22-25, F

@Queendragonfly Yes, it is important to be aware and cautious, especially as a woman in today's society however, if a woman chooses to show off her body, that does not warrant predatory actions against her, and she should not be shamed for showing her body at the end of the day it does not matter if she shows her body off or not. men should control themselves end of story, there should be no mention of what a woman is wearing or posting because at the end of the day it does not matter

LittleBallOfFire · 22-25, F

@LordShadowfire I deleted it because you guys are backwards. It's my profile pic get over it 😂

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@LittleBallOfFire I feel sorry for your husband.

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@LittleBallOfFire You think predators give a fuck what the rules are? 🤦🏻‍♀️

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@LittleBallOfFire What did your last sexual abuse from online teach you????

LittleBallOfFire · 22-25, F

@Queendragonfly that children should not form any kind of relationship with adults. Point blank period.

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

They see your pfp as an invite. Let's hope you can handle that without getting in danger.

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

Do you boyfriend know you also share your location to complete strangers on public posts?

LittleBallOfFire · 22-25, F

@Queendragonfly okay how about you focus on yourself and I'll focus on me🩷 thank you for your concern 🩷

LordShadowfire · 46-50, M

@LittleBallOfFire Look. I'm not saying that it's ever okay to blame the victim, but come on. You've ignored very basic safety rules in your time here. If I ever gave out my home address, or other personal information that could lead to people tracking me down, I would invest in a gun.

LittleBallOfFire · 22-25, F

@LordShadowfire I never gave out my home address? That's something she made up. I live on a military base so there's no issue with stalkers pulling up to my house lol.

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@LittleBallOfFire Predators groom girls your age every day. Just remember that and be safe. I might come off harsh or not focusing on the positives , but it's not to hurt you.

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@LittleBallOfFire Wherever you shared your location delete it. You don't understand how stalkers works. You being adult is no security at all. They have a pic and a location.

Anyone of us with traumas from men , or who are parents, or just aware of how this reality is, are just seeing big flashing red lights under your post.

LittleBallOfFire · 22-25, F

@Queendragonfly The big flashing red meaning what exactly? My ass?😂😭

LordShadowfire · 46-50, M

@LittleBallOfFire Oh, yeah? Did you share which base it is? Which town it is? Where you are on weekends and evenings? Because if I know what club you're hanging out at on a Friday night, in which town, and I'm obsessed with you, I know exactly where to find you.

Fortunately, I couldn't care less about tracking you down for nefarious purposes, but I do care that someone else might.

LittleBallOfFire · 22-25, F

@Queendragonfly at the end of the day lady, you don't even know if I'm real or not. Just tell yourself I'm a catfish and stop arguing with strangers on the internet good day

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LordShadowfire · 46-50, M

@LittleBallOfFire Oh, that's nice. Here I am, trying to protect you, and what do I get? Sarcasm.

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@LittleBallOfFire Where are your parents??

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@LordShadowfire We'd make a great team as parents. 👌✨

LittleBallOfFire · 22-25, F

@Queendragonfly proud of me💪🏼 if you don't like the way I live my life then don't live it like me. Point blank simple. Grow up snow flake

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@LordShadowfire She clearly don't appreciate it so let's just ignore her and go "Told you so" if she comes with whine posts in the future how men have sexually harassed her or stalked her.

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

@LittleBallOfFire I'm not The one who needs to grow up. I hope you have matured in 10 years.

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