I feel my gf does not value me and I don't know if I am right or wrong

Is she using you for resources?You paying all the bills?When you are weak with her she will walk all over you.Stop being that white knight.Tell her to treat you better.Or dump her and find a woman that appreciates you.

When did you start to count?
I don't think love has a way to be measured.

Because what you are capable of, she may not be. And vice versa. And what is one hundred% for you may be different from her, not because love is not there. But because love reflects differently with different people.

It's like this. You cannot give what you do not have. And your love language may be different from her.

But what you can do is learn to adapt and communicate.

I live with two people that society would not call living on the norm. They have their own beliefs and for a long while, it felt they didn't love me enough. Focusing on that made me bitter.

But then, I started expecting less from them and just loving myself more. And now, I am happy as can be. Because along the way, I learned that they also needed a different kind of love. The love I gave before was wanting to control and change them into a picture of what I think is better.
But they could not do that because their own expression of love is different.

Now, I have learned to adapt and help them grow. And little by little, in their own little ways, I too have started to see it. How they love. It is very different to what I pictured before. But it is uniquely them, and it is beautiful.

I’ve experienced this. Let her go. She won’t change. When you finally leave her she will say you were the problem to everyone she knows.

And you are still with her? You are teaching her not to change.

So walk the fuck away as see what happens if she lets you go good for you if she fights for you good for you

Time to get a new girlfriend.

Gee why are u still with her

Exactly tell her about all this u are feeling if she understands and try to make things better between both of u then it's good.
If nothing changes then u can try again to discuss seriously and still if she doesn't changes its time to make major decision!
All the best!

There is no right or wrong in love, it's about finding a middle ground. She has explained to you her reasons for being distant, but you're still hurt by this so you need to tell her how you're feeling.

Blow some more air into her. It sounds like she's deflating.

I think you've let her walk right over you.

Dump her and find someone else then let’s see if she still loves you

Is she a girl "friend" or hater, I'm confused...

You need to pay attention to the red flags and alarm bells⏰⏰