The storm has passed.

Me and my daughter have moved back here in the Philippines, after me and my husband separated. It has been a roller coaster mode for both of us. My ex-husband is now trying to get in contact chatting through wattsap, asking me about my day, etc. I have no interest of replying, as the question lingers in my head that says, "What for?" His messages are just empty messages of nothing, gaining no value, because he does not have any desire of having any remorse about what happen. I hope I have all the willpower not to reply. If he wants to get in contact, he can contact my daughter directly. There's nothing more to say. Time will just heal any wounds.💙

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Allelse · 36-40, M

Where were you before?

Bittersweet84 · 36-40, F

@Allelse UK, I have moved back here in the Philippines with my daughter from the UK.

Allelse · 36-40, M

@Bittersweet84 What? Are you crazy? You move back to the Philippines? With your daughter?

Bittersweet84 · 36-40, F

@Allelse Yes! And I'm not crazy, as I own a luxury apartment here in Metro Manila.

My daughter is used to the lifestyle here in the Philippines as she spent 6 years here when she was younger. We know a lot of family and friends here, as I am a Filipina.

Allelse · 36-40, M

@Bittersweet84 Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!! So you're rich, oh well that's different then.

Bittersweet84 · 36-40, F

@Allelse I am not rich, just able to raise my child in a comfortable way of living. Living here in the Philippines is more convenient for us both as we can afford to do more things in a reasonable prices. Unlike in the UK, things were difficult for me.

Allelse · 36-40, M

@Bittersweet84 Which means rich.

Bittersweet84 · 36-40, F

@Allelse I will never consider my self as rich. I still communicate and say hello to the house keeping team and security guards in the building. I take tricycle (TUK TUK) everyday, and I go to the outdoor market rather than going to the supermarket.
I give foods to the homeless and speak to them, I walk to school when I fetch my daughter ( though people here would think I'm weird because I'm walking.)
I work hard to make ends meet. And that's me. I smile to the local vendors in the street and say hello. I will never consider myself as rich. I wish I am. 😅 And I don't need to work if I'm rich. 🤣

Allelse · 36-40, M

@Bittersweet84 So you condescend to the help, well I mean, at least you're trying.

Bittersweet84 · 36-40, F

@Allelse Helping is not to condescend to people. I am not superior, I'm just an average individual, if I have a little bit more, I'll be willing to do what I can do. Helping is not only in terms of material things, helping can be other forms. Anyway good luck and take care. I'm not here to debate. Thank you for your comment. 👍

Ynotisay · M

@Allelse Have you ever been to the Philippines? Do you know any Filipinos? Bet you don't.

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Bittersweet84 · 36-40, F

@Ynotisay Just ignore this person mate. She just wants to debate here. It's not helping anybody.