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The storm has passed.

Me and my daughter have moved back here in the Philippines, after me and my husband separated. It has been a roller coaster mode for both of us. My ex-husband is now trying to get in contact chatting through wattsap, asking me about my day, etc. I have no interest of replying, as the question lingers in my head that says, "What for?" His messages are just empty messages of nothing, gaining no value, because he does not have any desire of having any remorse about what happen. I hope I have all the willpower not to reply. If he wants to get in contact, he can contact my daughter directly. There's nothing more to say. Time will just heal any wounds.๐Ÿ’™
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Crazywaterspring ยท 61-69, M
He's your ex for a reason. You sound like you've a nice life in Manila. Enjoy. You have noting to apologize for.
Bittersweet84 ยท 41-45, F
@Crazywaterspring BGC is like the New York of the Philippines. Condos there are very pricey but low quality. It's 10-15mins drive from where I live. We go there like once a month.
Crazywaterspring ยท 61-69, M
@Bittersweet84 We had a place in Cavite. The area near us was used for pag-ibig. We sold out. Too many all night parties mainly every night. On our next visit we will be shopping for a place.
Bittersweet84 ยท 41-45, F
@Crazywaterspring Awww, I have relatives in Cavite area. Best place to buy a property is Pasig City(where I bought my condo). It's near on major business districts, but you're also near to provinces.

I sold my land in Cavite this year, as I haven't got any purpose anymore for the land.

I don't know, I feel at home in Pasig City.

All the property prices and rapidly increasing these past few years.
Nick1 ยท 61-69, M
Stay happy. That all matters.
Allelse ยท 36-40, M
Where were you before?
Ynotisay ยท M
@Allelse Have you ever been to the Philippines? Do you know any Filipinos? Bet you don't.
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Bittersweet84 ยท 41-45, F
@Ynotisay Just ignore this person mate. She just wants to debate here. It's not helping anybody.
Mbingh01 ยท 70-79, F
I was born in Manila( Clark Air Force Base) but was only 9 months old when we left to come back to usa. I would love to visit some day!
Bittersweet84 ยท 41-45, F
@Mbingh01 Pampanga is a province in the Philippines, part of Region 3.

I'm not sure why your birth certificate says Manila.

When you also say Manila, it's a city within Metro Manila. It's what we call Manila City.
@Bittersweet84 Your "birth certificate" probably says MANILA because your parents registered your birth at the US Embassy (which is in Manila). Usually these are documents that signify REPORT OF THE BIRTH OF A US CITIZEN ABROAD. At least that is what my kid's "official" birth certificates say. The "non-official" ones show a hospital in Olongapo City.
Bittersweet84 ยท 41-45, F
@Threepio This is not about me. It's about @Mbingh01. ๐Ÿง
robertsnj ยท 56-60, M
Sorry for your pain. Where does your separated husband live? Was the idea to leave the Philippines initially? Does the Philippines recognize overseas marriage locally / where you have to get a divorce or by moving back home you severed the legal part of the relationship?
Bittersweet84 ยท 41-45, F
My British husband lives in the UK.

There is no divorce here in the Philippines.

I will sort our annulment after a year, as I was told, that it takes ages to process and it's super expensive.
MrAverage1965 ยท 61-69, M
@Bittersweet84 Where did you get married?
Bowenw ยท 61-69, M
I believe you are doing the right thing by avoiding him. Stay strong.
Bittersweet84 ยท 41-45, F
@Bowenw I'll just reply or message him when it's an emergency.
Bowenw ยท 61-69, M
@Bittersweet84 Yes of course.
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Bittersweet84 ยท 41-45, F
@LandOfOz Thank you. ๐Ÿ’™
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AngelKrish ยท 26-30, M
I read your posts, it was toxic relationship, u made right decision, Bravo ๐Ÿ‘
Now new life is waiting for u...no need to go back....๐ŸŒท
Strictmichael75 ยท 61-69, M
If you want to talk about it you can message me if it helps
Strictmichael75 ยท 61-69, M
I tried it says you must friend me first!
Very strange
choccymonster ยท 56-60, M
Hope things work out for you.
Bittersweet84 ยท 41-45, F
@choccymonster We are trying.๐Ÿ’™
BridgeOvertroubledWaters ยท 61-69, M
Good luck and stand your own
Bittersweet84 ยท 41-45, F
@BridgeOvertroubledWaters Thank you. I'm trying.
Strictmichael75 ยท 61-69, M
Canโ€™t you block him ?
Be strong
Bittersweet84 ยท 41-45, F
@Strictmichael75 I did, but he begged me for open communications for the sake of our daughter.
I put his message in archive.
Richard65 ยท M
@Bittersweet84 it sounds like he's regretting mistreating you now you've taken back control of your life. His begging you for open communication might just be a ploy to enable him to try more coercion and control from a distance. Be careful of everything he says to you and your daughter. Leopards don't change their spots.
Bittersweet84 ยท 41-45, F
@Richard65 Yes, when I was in the UK, he tried brainwashing my daughter. He is very good in gaslighting me.
Sojournersoul ยท M
You just take care of you and your daughter.
Dino11 ยท M
Good Luck..
Bittersweet84 ยท 41-45, F
@Dino11 Thank you.
nevergiveup ยท 61-69, M
My x was texting me all the time wanting to be just friends. All she wanted was for me to drive her around and do jobs for her.
wudifu ยท 46-50, M
Did it....did he stop asking
Is your daughter an adult???
Bittersweet84 ยท 41-45, F
@HootyTheNightOwl WHY?

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@Bittersweet84 Because, if she isn't... then contact might have to be through you since you are responsible for her safety until she becomes old enough to decide what she wants for herself.
Bittersweet84 ยท 41-45, F
@HootyTheNightOwl He can contact my daughter directly, after all she's already 14 years old. I'll just reply if it's really important. Other than that, no need to.
MichaelT ยท 41-45, M
All the best
Lostlostlost ยท 56-60, M
Where did you live before
SimplyLogicalDiscipline ยท 36-40, F
Block him
BigGuy2 ยท 31-35, M
y thank u
BigGuy2 ยท 31-35, M
Cheer up then ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ๐Ÿ˜ƒ
BigGuy2 ยท 31-35, M
Is it working out then

 
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