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He wants to see me every weekend!!! Ughhh

A guy I’ve been going on dates with texts me every weekend asking to see me. I dread this because I work all week and look forward to my weekend so I can do self care stuff to myself. Im okay with every other weekend but every weekend just affects my social battery. Why am I like this? Is this normal? This only happens with guys I date not with female friends.
Fifidog
26-30, F
7 replies 934 views Aug 26, 2023
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Amylynne · 26-30, F
That’s because the menu did have more depends on you than your friends would it is appropriate to have Minnis friends just saying. But Be firm. Remind him the more he bugs you? The less likely you are to see him. Make it a date, in advance, And then he has to wait until nap time to see you. Friendly messages are fine, pressure is not
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Fifidog · 26-30, F
@Amylynne is it rude of me to not want to see him every weekend or is it okay? I just feel like it’s too much sometimes
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clairedelune · M
@Fifidog it's certainly OK, and it's definitely not rude, if you only want to see him every other weekend. But it could also be a sign that you don't like him that much and/or that it might not be a good match...
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Luckylu · 61-69, F
It is my opinion that dating someone on a regular basis should be energizing. It should be something you look forward to. I would want the date to be something that fulfills self care. If you feel seeing him depletes instead of energizes, isn’t rewarding and fulfilling, then why do you continue to see him? Sounds to me like you aren’t into a relationship with him and he is only there for your convenience. It sounds like he is more into wanting something deeper and more meaningful than you are. You aren’t being fair to him unless the two of you have agreed to casual which isn’t stated, you should end it.
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Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Be honest with him and lay it on the line, not every weekend as you have personal things to do as well.
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ArtieKat · M
Quite bluntly, it sounds like it's not a match made in heaven - time to break it off before one of you gets hurt.
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