He wants to see me every weekend!!! Ughhh

A guy I’ve been going on dates with texts me every weekend asking to see me. I dread this because I work all week and look forward to my weekend so I can do self care stuff to myself. Im okay with every other weekend but every weekend just affects my social battery. Why am I like this? Is this normal? This only happens with guys I date not with female friends.

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Amylynne · 26-30, F

That’s because the menu did have more depends on you than your friends would it is appropriate to have Minnis friends just saying. But Be firm. Remind him the more he bugs you? The less likely you are to see him. Make it a date, in advance, And then he has to wait until nap time to see you. Friendly messages are fine, pressure is not

Fifidog · 26-30, F

@Amylynne is it rude of me to not want to see him every weekend or is it okay? I just feel like it’s too much sometimes

clairedelune · M

@Fifidog it's certainly OK, and it's definitely not rude, if you only want to see him every other weekend. But it could also be a sign that you don't like him that much and/or that it might not be a good match...