It is over

So, after 4 years of an on and off again relationship... I broke up with him today. Via text. He didn't reply, and I don't think he ever will. That's kind of in his nature. It's sad that I've gotten so used to it, it doesn't bother me any more. And that's how I know that this time the breakup is for good.

I want to thank everyone for the solid advice in my previous post. I think it was all things that I already knew, but I needed to hear it from someone else to confirm it. I appreciate you all and I'm excited to start the healing process.

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PhilDeep · 51-55, M

I am guessing he's in shock. Even people who don't show emotion easily experience that. Could also be he was basically playing the situation like a coward, wanting a break but goading you into making it, to put it on you, rather than take responsibility himself. Break-ups hurt. I say go easy on yourself and don't rush anything out of pressure to be in another relationship.