It is over So, after 4 years of an on and off again relationship... I broke up with him today....

PhilDeep · 51-55, M

I am guessing he's in shock. Even people who don't show emotion easily experience that. Could also be he was basically playing the situation like a coward, wanting a break but goading you into making it, to put it on you, rather than take responsibility himself. Break-ups hurt. I say go easy on yourself and don't rush anything out of pressure to be in another relationship.

Pretzel · 61-69, M

congrats on making what must have been an easy choice but a difficult text.

I heard the most interesting comment on a podcast...they woman said "is this the guy I want standing next to me while I am at my paren't deathbed?"

kind of a morbid thought - but if the answer is "no" then you know it's not a long term thing.

Fairydust · F

You did the right thing. 🤗

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

I think this is going to be a positive change in your life.

I’m
Very proud of you!

Butter64 · 56-60, M

Hello!
I regret the outcome for you.
but in this boring for you, you will come out stronger, even if it takes longer.
You undoubtedly deserve something much better.
I'm on the other side if you want to vent your anger or frustration

TravisTx · M

Happy to see you won’t be wasting any more time on that loser. He doesn’t deserve you. I hope you feel a sense a relief that you’ve done the right thing for yourself. Don’t look back hun!

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

I saw your post , I'm glad you realized he's not commited. Which is the number 1 deal breaker. If there's no commitment there's no relationship. No time wasting.