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ViciDraco · 41-45, M
This is a common red flag for narcissists and abusers. They don't begin with the worst of the behaviors. They start by tearing you down in little ways, bit by bit. So that when they do reveal themselves you do not have the self esteem to believe you deserve better.
I cannot say for sure this is what is happening here as I don't have all of the context. But I would be immediately on alert and discussing divorce options to show you aren't going to sit around and take it.
I cannot say for sure this is what is happening here as I don't have all of the context. But I would be immediately on alert and discussing divorce options to show you aren't going to sit around and take it.