Hopefuldreamer231 · 26-30, F
Hey! That is so disappointing, especially when you were so excited about celebrating him. I do wonder if he agreed so easily to his brother because deep down he really wanted his family to validate his value by celebrating him.
I do agree that he should spend time with you because you are his girlfriend and a significant person in his life. Maybe he just couldn’t see how much of an impact it have on you.
Sorry you went through that.
I do agree that he should spend time with you because you are his girlfriend and a significant person in his life. Maybe he just couldn’t see how much of an impact it have on you.
Sorry you went through that.
@Hopefuldreamer231 thanks but sometimes it makes me feel like he doesn’t care about me or making me feel important
Lackwittyname · M
@Lackwittyname I thought that too I felt dumped like a hot potato. If he was a good bf would he have chose me?
revenant · F
@Colemanchloe326 yes
@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout what does that mean
TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 46-50, MVIP
@Colemanchloe326 everyone’s got drama
@Teirdalin it makes me feel like the pizza is more important and desired than me lol
Casheyane · 31-35, F
He is an ass so no it isn't you. That means he has other priorities.
And his dad doesn't seem to like you. Plus, your bf didn't seem to defend you.
Think really hard if you wanna keep up with that family. Letting them get away with how they treat you now...will start a pattern you really would hate in the long run.
And his dad doesn't seem to like you. Plus, your bf didn't seem to defend you.
Think really hard if you wanna keep up with that family. Letting them get away with how they treat you now...will start a pattern you really would hate in the long run.
revenant · F
SomeMichGuy · M
@SomeMichGuy I just feel pretty upset about that happening I feel as if he doesn’t prioritize me should I tell him or let it go
SomeMichGuy · M
@Colemanchloe326 I think if he is unable to choose you when *you* listened, *you* cared, and *you* tried to fix his stated problem AND GIVE HIM A HAPPY BIRTHDAY...then he has shown you everything you need to know.
You have empathy for him; he had none for you.
If he had talked it over with you, that would have at least shown that he was sensitive to _your_ feelings, and that he wanted to honor your offer.
But he never gave you the chance.
If that's how he treats you when it *is* important to him...how will he treat you when it *ISN'T*??
It's sad, but no one forced him to be an ass. He chose assdom. He could have been a hero, he chose to be a 0.
You have empathy for him; he had none for you.
If he had talked it over with you, that would have at least shown that he was sensitive to _your_ feelings, and that he wanted to honor your offer.
But he never gave you the chance.
If that's how he treats you when it *is* important to him...how will he treat you when it *ISN'T*??
It's sad, but no one forced him to be an ass. He chose assdom. He could have been a hero, he chose to be a 0.
Jackaloftheazuresand · 26-30, M
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Jackaloftheazuresand · 26-30, M
@Colemanchloe326 you simply tell him that he hurt your feelings by not honoring the original commitment and nothing more. If he wants to be a jerk after such an amicable statement you know where you stand but I don't think he will be.
@Jackaloftheazuresand will he make a big deal out of that if he finds me feeling that silly?
Jackaloftheazuresand · 26-30, M
@Colemanchloe326 You mean like he says, "Relax, it doesn't matter I'll still hang out with you"? It's possible. You'd have to be in a pretty terrible relationship for him to not even try to apologize or explain himself
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Can he ever change or is he who he is now? @Quoththeraven
@Convivial should I bring it up to him or let it go
Convivial · 26-30, F
@Colemanchloe326 i would bring it up... You need to tell him how it made you feel so he understands.
He'll either accept your feelings and apologise or say your overreacting.,. From his reaction you'll know what to do next
He'll either accept your feelings and apologise or say your overreacting.,. From his reaction you'll know what to do next