AnonymousJSS · 22-25, F
They don’t try to understand you
They’re not there for you when you most need them
They’re stubborn and don’t get the help they need
They’re not there for you when you most need them
They’re stubborn and don’t get the help they need
Punches · 46-50, F
If you are just wanting out but don't have a specific reason you could chalk it up as the relationship has run it's course.
Relationships and even friendships eventually just get boring. Doesn't mean anything bad happened, it is just time to move on.
Relationships and even friendships eventually just get boring. Doesn't mean anything bad happened, it is just time to move on.
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@Punches Oh, you're still reading the question from a very different angle tho...
This question was inspired by observing how each person has very different point of view on when to give up on a relationship, and that's often a big problem with relationships... So I just wanted to know how people here see it. I'm not looking for any specific "correct" answer as there's no such thing
This question was inspired by observing how each person has very different point of view on when to give up on a relationship, and that's often a big problem with relationships... So I just wanted to know how people here see it. I'm not looking for any specific "correct" answer as there's no such thing
Punches · 46-50, F
@SW-User I think I got... some of that.
Anyways I am not sure so sorry to be a pest.
Anyways I am not sure so sorry to be a pest.

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@Punches oh please don't say this, it's alright
HannibalAteMeOut · 22-25, F
It doesn't feel like a relationship anymore and you are with each other just out of habit, you are constantly annoyed by them, have the urge to find passion elsewhere, take each other for granted, grow apart etc
Lilymoon · F
The thrill is gone
No longer finding fullfillment in your relationship. Daily arguments.
wonkywinky · 51-55, M
I think cheating is the No1 i guess.
Then maybe if theres a breakdown in communication,and respect.
To be with someone a long time,requires much effort and input.
Its a pity,but you cant just fall in to a neutral funk with someone where nothing is happening.Effort is required.
Then maybe if theres a breakdown in communication,and respect.
To be with someone a long time,requires much effort and input.
Its a pity,but you cant just fall in to a neutral funk with someone where nothing is happening.Effort is required.
wonkywinky · 51-55, M
Oh dear,i think a lot of people might not agree,but i was with a girl once,about 2 1/2 years,and i found out i worked with a guy,who also had been in a relationship with her years before.
It turned out whilst with him she had cheated on him with 2 other guys,even bringing a guy back to the flat they shared whilst he was away in hospital for a few nights.
She never told me this so i felt a bit betrayed,so i decided not to continue with her.
The rationale was i was unsure she hadnt been unfaithful with me.
It turned out whilst with him she had cheated on him with 2 other guys,even bringing a guy back to the flat they shared whilst he was away in hospital for a few nights.
She never told me this so i felt a bit betrayed,so i decided not to continue with her.
The rationale was i was unsure she hadnt been unfaithful with me.

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She no longer laughs at your jokes.
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
They hang the toilet paper roll backwards.
Skitzo · 56-60, M
We could sit and name off reasons all day. Bottom line is you're ready to move on. . So do it.
BeefySenpie · M
You are no longer passionate about knowing them or spending time with them

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@BeefySenpie That happens all the time though. That's when the work comes in.
Bluebirdsonmyshoulder · 46-50, F
Because you want to. That’s it. Why does it have to be so complicated?

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Lots of reasons, but I think many times it's just selfishness
alan20 · M
If it's becoming much too one-sided self-respect will eventually have to kick in.

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val70 · 51-55
Hatred
TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart · 22-25, F
When the sex starts to feel terrible
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LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
@jshm2 Wow. Ladies and gentlemen, the face of Christianity.
Yulianna · 26-30, F
one of you dies...
MaBalzEsHari · M
You just shot your partner to death and so it's too late to reconcile now.
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
Cheating
Infinecho · 31-35, F
I'm fucking exhausted and you're not trying...
acpguy · C
My ex was bipolar and a total nut case.
caccoon · 36-40
You are unhappy and attempts to fix problems are unheard or disregarded
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
They have been dismissing your valid concerns for years, and nothing you are concerned about is treated as important.
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Crabs
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