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Husbands would you do this?

Would you still be friends with a woman and go out together when told you that she was in love with you?
fanuc2013 · 46-50, F
The man should think about this,if the woman is in love with him, by continuing to see her, he is just teasing her and perpetuating her pain! And that is just wrong!
HappyCamper74 · 46-50, M
If I am happily married then I would distance myself from this woman who says she's in love with me and actually run from this temptation.
If I am not happy in my marriage, yes I would be flattered by this woman being in love with me and would be open to her pursuit of me.
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
Do you mean if she told me she was in love with me?

It’s never appropriate to maintain ties with someone who covets your marriage. It’s wrong and thought the other person can’t help how they feel you can certainly keep yourself safe from temptation.
summerlove · 31-35, F
@[Muthafukajones] Yes if she told she was in love with you, would you still remain friends with her?
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
@summerlove I’d probably make it very clear that I am happily married and distance myself from her. I might still maintain some ties to her if she was a good friend.
Cambam · M
nope, to complicated. and things get taken out of context to easily. And having been there and bedded her eventually, I have to say it is a bad idea
Renkon · 36-40, M
It's not healthy for you marriage. No old flame want's to be 'just' friends. Emotions will creep in. So be smart and politely keep away.
bugeye · 26-30, F
imo as long as he sets boundaries and it's made clear there's no relationship there id be fine with them staying friends.
Adogslife · 61-69, M
If I was in a sexless marriage, yes. If I was in a healthy marriage, definitely no.
hippyjoe1955 · 61-69, M
If I were single yes. Since I am married -NO!
If he's married, that's a dangerous recipe
Why do you ask? Are you in love with me ?
SilkandLace2 · 41-45, M
Friends, yes, go out with, no
subhubby · 56-60, M
No, not appropriate.
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
Probably not

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