Should I get to know a man who lives an hour away?

The man I want to get to know more lives about an hour away. I am currently employed 5 minutes away from my house so I really don't want to move. He mentioned that he doesn't picture himself moving away from the area he lives in now. If I were to get serious with this man, would that be a problem down the road. Would neither one of us be flexible in moving? Is this something I should get deeper in conversation with him first, go on more dates? How can I address this concern. I don't want to waste my time if neither one of us want to move, but then I

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4meAndyou · F

While you are dating, you should split the difference and meet at restaurants and parks and theaters in between your two homes. If the chemistry is right, you will know it after you've seen each other a few times, and you can do overnights later.

If you want to get to know this man, you are already interested, so why not explore?

This BS about "wasting your time" is just that. If you meet a man you actually grow to care for, you will feel a lot differently, and if he returns your feelings, so will he!