I'm starting to suspect he's not that interested

We talk every day, but I'm always the one who has to initiate it. We have nice long conversations, but real intimacies are never shared. We flirt, but there isn't any real affection. We talk about visiting each other, but no plans are made. I'm starting to feel some dissatisfaction. I don't really want to date other guys, but I don't want to waste my time and feelings on someone who isn't really interested in me.

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BigBulge · 41-45, M

You're "STARTING" to suspect ? It looks crystal clear to me. You're just friends. That's still good.

blindbob · 41-45

@BigBulge I guess I'm always just the friend, huh?

BigBulge · 41-45, M

@blindbob No, you're not always just the friend. Take it as a sign that it just happens that this guy isn't your "Mr Right." Then, keep an eye out for the guy who IS.

blindbob · 41-45

@BigBulge He said he's still very interested and he's just trying to be respectful.