How did you get over your ex when you didn’t have proper closure and really felt like they were the one?
I am ashamed to say it’s been many many years.
51-55, F
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I don’t think you do get over it, you just learn to live with it.
UnderLockDown · M
NewBeginnings7790 · 41-45, F
Not sure it’s something one can get over. But more of a realization of that person will never care for you the way you want and need to feel loved. That no matter what they will never see you the way you see them. So it becomes more of a save yourself situation
CookieCrumbs · F
You have to ask yourself: if they were the One, why aren’t they with you?
What does it mean for them to be the One?
You also have to accept that though they may be the One, this May not be the right time for you to be together.
What does it mean for them to be the One?
You also have to accept that though they may be the One, this May not be the right time for you to be together.
GeniUs · 56-60, M
You accept that life isn't a film where all the secrets are revealed. Think about it, there are many things in life we wonder 'why that happened?' And you'll never know you just have to move on.
DoubleRings · 51-55, F
This is a really good thought. I’ve thought it myself and you’re right. There’s no happy endings sometimes no endings at all, and no explanations. It just is and at the end of our lives we may not have a conclusion to all the things we wish we could understand or reconcile. @GeniUs sad but true. Life is not a film.
BeJeweled · F
I met my future husband shortly after we split up. Forgot about him quick as he was mean to me.
PassingThrough · 46-50, M
I asked myself one question that settled this problem for me
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
I didn't have closure with my ex-wife, but for me, after while, the metaphorical "F YOU"s were enough. To be honest, there really is no reason that would have been good enough. I've moved on and am looking forward to marriage number two.