Let’s pretend you’re married and your spouse says this to you, what would you say:

Can we have a chat? Firstly I love you, you are the reason I am still alive, the reason I get up in the morning and do what I do. When I think of getting old and dying I’m doing it with you. I am so happy just being with you that I’m actually starting to think it’s possible there is a god, because someone had to make you so perfect. Second, we’ve been married for so long and we got married so young that there were so many things I’d love to try and do that I never got to try or do , and it’s been a weird few years for me and I’ve realised I’d really like to consider trying out some new experiences like inviting another person into our bedroom or visiting somewhere where we can explore our sexualities comfortably and together more importantly. I’d like to get to 60 and think back and not wonder what all those experiences are like. And I’d like to know more about myself and about you.


Then you say:…