I am just jealous and indecisive

2 weeks ago I met a girl she’s so kind and she has a great boyfriend. And then I was like why the hell i am alone?
So I went digging into my former repertoire of guys and I fell into a guy that I rejected in the past. I suggest him to go out he said yes then we got intimate. At the end of the day I realised that it wasn’t what I really needed I just was jealous and wanted to have something similar to my friend. And I know deep in my soul that even if the guy was kind and sweet it will never be enough because all of that things about relationships and romance is not for me.
I feel so stuck when I am with a guy and I tend to treat them badly.

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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M

Don't take a dating situation so seriously. Not every one can find someone off the bat. Actually that very rarely happens.

Also everyone is different. So it's good that you can get back with someone that you didn't before as long as they weren't total jerks.

The relationship thing is a learning experience. Think of it like a school subject. There are certain things you might be able to learn just not a good fit for you to master. Yet might lead you on to other things that might be more fitting for you.

Not everyone is the same, yet there are some things in common.

4meAndyou · F

You should not be with anyone till you grow up a bit. That girl you know is kind and has a great boyfriend because she loves him, and she treats him with love.

She is not all about herself. Very immature people ARE all about themselves, don't offer real love or kindness to others, and they will usually be unhappy and alone until they learn.

Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M

You're young so it might be that your brain isn't able to make good decisions yet and since you're cute you're probably spoiled.

Kae20 · 56-60, FVIP

Getting involved with someone you don't truly want hmmm

I don't envy you. Far better to just be alone.

Tres13 · 51-55, M

You enjoy ur own company 👍🏿Me too

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