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My suspicions were right !

I had a feeling for months that my boyfriend was cheating on me .. and I was right. Recently found evidence on his phone. The girls name was saved as a contact in a guys name !! I called that b*%$h. And she denied everything .. I know the difference.. I seen messages and FaceTime calls to each other. My heart is broken into a million pieces .. I cannot believe I'm dealing with this again. My ex cheated on me. Took me forever to get over it and move on. And here I am again .. what's next ? Do I forgive and forget ? I don't think I will ever trust him again now :( I uprooted my life from hometown almost 5 years Ago. Left everything behind .. if I walk out now. I have basically nothing. Not even a car to drive .. my life is falling apart 💔. I don't see a way out. Yet !! If I stay. It'll drive me crazy ! I don't think he has her number deleted off his phone. .. that can only mean one thing !? So broken 😞

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MarkPaul · 26-30, M

I think you owe your boyfriend an apology for accessing his phone. Hopefully, he will forgive you.

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MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@SW-User 🤨 In the legal profession, we call it an invasion of privacy.

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@MarkPaul This ain't no court room son! I don't see no damn judge and jury... Fool

Ifollowmyownstar · 41-45, F

@MarkPaul I had rights to his phone. Thank you ! When I had suspicions. He can take my phone and go through it anytime he wants ! When you have NOTHING to hide. Shouldn't be an issue to go through each other's phones.

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@Ifollowmyownstar Tbh, I think you have trust issues and you don't understand how important trust is in a relationship. After doing this, I wouldn't be surprised if he didn't trust you for a very long time. I know I wouldn't.

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@Ifollowmyownstar Don't acknowledge him anymore. He's a troll that's just trying to get a reaction out of people. Ignore them and eventually they get bored and go away.

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@Ifollowmyownstar I'm not a cheater and I'm not condoning what your boyfriend may have done. But, invading someone's privacy isn't a solution and it's dismaying that you think it is.

Jenny1234 · 51-55, F

@MarkPaul just wtf

Ifollowmyownstar · 41-45, F

@MarkPaul one time I could pick up his phone. To answer a call or whatever. Not necessarily look for evidence of anything. But When he became protective over it. I knew something was up. It went on like it for months so I deserved to see what was going on !

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@Ifollowmyownstar I see your side of it; I do. I just wish you would have communicated with him (and he with you) rather than securing information in this way. Again, I'm not in favour of cheating, but, there are still boundaries that need to be respected in relationships. Once those are broken, it's hard to repair what may be left of a relationship. And, we don't know what his side of the situation is.

Ifollowmyownstar · 41-45, F

I have questioned him for mths. He jusy tried to make me like the crazy one. And I was imagining things. Obviously I wasn't. @MarkPaul

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@Ifollowmyownstar But, what would lead him to do this, I wonder? I get that you're hurt and to a degree that is understandable. But, there usually is a reason behind an action like this. Is he willing to talk about it with you? Are you open to listening to his explanation?

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@MarkPaul The point is that he cheated on her. Why do you keep deflecting away from that. WTF are you the god damn phone police. Geeesh

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@MarkPaul [quote]But, what would lead him to do this, I wonder?[/quote]

His dick. He's a man

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@SW-User Stop being a busy-body toll. Do you even understand anything about the delicate balance of relationships?

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@SW-User Honestly... you're not helping.

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@MarkPaul You don't fool me Troll

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@SW-User Just ignore me and I will get bored. Remember...?

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@MarkPaul Actually I told her to ignore you, remember? I'm having fun now

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@SW-User Okay, Troll. Enjoy...

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@MarkPaul Enjoy this..

Ifollowmyownstar · 41-45, F

@SW-User why did he cheat ? Good question!! Not Becz he got it bad at home. I almost wipes his arse for him

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

@Ifollowmyownstar But, what is his side of this?

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