You left one of "honesty" . It would save you a lot of pain . I was in one before and all she had to say is that she didn't love me no more instead of cheating . Would have saved me a lot of pain . The pain I went through of that situation I'm after turning into an addict since cause the pain got so bad . And I had that all under control before I met . I was free from addiction . Honesty is my one.