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Really considering about cheating.

My boyfriend of 4 years. .. he's been so distant the last few months. He shows me no love. No affection. Nothing. I have tried to bring it up in conversation how a women needs love and affection. But he don't want to talk about it.

Recently he's been going out night time .. for a few hours. Alone. He don't answer his calls or texts .. so I suspect something is up. When I confront him. I'm the and one !

Night times .. he stays up all hours on the couch watching tv. .. while I go to bed .. alone. I lay there and wonder to myself. Wtf is going on .. why am I still here !?

Right now. Feeling lonely.. sad .. unattractive. Etc. It would be so easy to fall in the arms of another man. ...
ReturnOfTheQueen · 18-21, F
why would you cheat instead of leaving him???
Ifollowmyownstar · 41-45, F
Leaving isn't an option
Right now. [@1254669,ReturnOfTheQueen]
WhateverWorks · 36-40
Sounds a lot like he’s depressed
Ifollowmyownstar · 41-45, F
I mentioned that to him weeks ago. But he doesn't believe in mental health. And really ignorant about it. [@1250980,WhateverWorks]
WhateverWorks · 36-40
You might get further with him if you stay away from language like depression then and instead use words like stress and lessening stress. Could be good to talk to him about how he feels about his stress and what would help? [@510272,Ifollowmyownstar]
Tminus6453 · M
May as well just break it off and move on..
Ifollowmyownstar · 41-45, F
I think that's what I need to do. But leaving isn't an option right now. I've been considering this for a few mths. And high rent. No car. And so many other things going against me right now. [@27230,Tminus6453]
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
Walk away. Leave this.

Cheating ain't worth it.
CallistaSloane · 26-30, F
Leaving or staying is hard. Choose your hard.

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