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Do Swingers Have The Most Successful Marriage

Ynotjenn · F
The couples I’ve seen that dabble in it haven’t been successful. One couple - the wife was constantly pushing the boundaries which turned her husband into a crazy person. Another couple - the girl was just trying to be the “cool wife” but wasn’t really into it and she felt like she wasn’t enough for him - leading to their split.

Just seems like too much damn drama for me. While the idea is intriguing, I’d rather just mess around with my person and have fun with that. 🤷🏻‍♀️
@Ynotjenn Agreed! Even I like to be sociable now and then. It is nice to have a laugh with some people and just enjoy some good company. It is a good feeling, but everything definitely requires a certain amount of energy...emotional cost of living. Enjoy the Red Bull. ✌️

EDIT: Referring purely to socialising.
JohnOlinger · 36-40, M
@Ynotjenn So what do you think of enjoythestruggle & Would You Do Him
jim2439 · 56-60, M
@Ynotjenn its much safer
jackj · 61-69, M
Old fashioning cheated is far superior and much classier

Highskirt · M
I've never swung but I have shared my wife and yes we feel closer because of it
BeautifulLibra · 41-45, F
As far as swinger, and swinging, what about STD's?
@BeautifulLibra That, jealousy [be it yours, theirs or that of any third parties], not wanting to advertise it around your offspring [not wanting to put them in an awkward, embarrassing or traumatic situation] and keep both those worlds very separate - shit...even [i]logistics[/i].

The swinging lifestyle doesn't seem like it would be straightforward at all.
FarahLover69 · 31-35, F
Depends on the agreements they make.
But at one point or another someone will get jealous. But all the joy to the ones that enjoy it.
bhatjc · 41-45, M
@FarahLover69 Agreed. Just ride that wave.
jackj · 61-69, M
Brilliant analysis! @FarahLover69
I got enough on my plate with one woman, good lord why would I go and ask for more ?? 🙄😉
ClaireHeaded · 31-35, F
Swinging has nothing to do with making a marriage successful. It's actually the other way around. You need a strong marriage to make the whole swinging experience; or any variation of an open relationship, work for everyone. Otherwise it's just a recipe for disaster.
It depends. Some are close or remain close. but there is a common belief / maybe knowledge that the possibility of falling in love with other people increases due to high turnover of sexual partners / odds of equal or greater chemistry.
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
The ones I've seen end in divorce
JohnOlinger · 36-40, M
@HoraceGreenley Will ClaireHeaded Become My SW,Groupie
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
JohnOlinger · 36-40, M
Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M
Depends on the couple. Polyamory works for some but it’s not for everyone.
Dragonsballsack · 46-50, F
@Quetzalcoatlus it rarely works for all participants
Azlotto · M
All the ones I know of ended in divorce.
JohnOlinger · 36-40, M
@Azlotto because of trust issues & Jealously ?
Azlotto · M
@JohnOlinger Some fell in love (lust) with someone else.
wishing4u2 · 46-50, M
I have seen sucessful marriages even though they are in to this.
JohnOlinger · 36-40, M
I hope this gets more Answers
OldMan70 · 70-79
Having been in a swinging TRIAD (MFM) for 3 yrs that turned into a swinger marriage (with the F from the TRIAD) for another 10 yrs...
I have to say that us attending and hosting regular swingers parties was the best way to keep her satisfied and me fulfilled as her cuck husband.
RebuildingME · 41-45, F
Mine ended in divorce
bhatjc · 41-45, M
Maybe who knows
Those that i know don't.
Coisty · 46-50, M
Too much drama.
Rhode57 · 56-60, M
No not always as most stop swinging as they get older .
Rhode57 · 56-60, M
@jackj There isnt a limit it depends on the couples willing to play
jackj · 61-69, M
Much of it going on at nursing homes? @Rhode57
Rhode57 · 56-60, M
@jackj Lol you never know .
What do you think of swingers and would you do them?
JohnOlinger · 36-40, M
@SW-User Their Awesome & Hell Yes I would
@JohnOlinger 👍 The ones are actual swingers anyway and not just pent up jealous dysfunctional ones lol trolol
Bananaxx · 26-30
So what do you think of Caitlyn Jenner and would you do her?
JohnOlinger · 36-40, M
@Bananaxx she's cool & Hell Yes
ServantOfTheGoddess · 56-60, M
That is one option I haven't tried so I can't tell you.

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