How many times will I have to tell him it's okay for me to cheat but he can't?☹️😥😥💔💔

Ugh how dare he. He should respect your wishes

Instead of saying "cheating" have you tried proposing a ground rule under which you have a hall pass under conditions acceptable to him, but he doesn't? Cheating makes it a trust issue; conditional permission to have sex with others eliminates the trust issues.

I completely agree with this. As long as I’m informed a little ahead of time. Lol

Every time, you'll have to tell him everytime.

Cheat as in food cheat right

Dang. I really hope this is a joke.