A question

So this guy I like, he’s in a relationship, and I respect that, I wouldn’t cross any boundaries. I’m a firm believer in what is meant to be mine will come to me, but at the same time I am wondering if he should know how I feel about him, because I’m pretty sure he had feelings for me in the past, and I didn’t realize it at the time, so I just dismissed it as him being friendly. So a part of me wonders if he would go for it if he knew how I felt. Should I tell him how I feel, or let go?

kentex35 · 100+, M

You were right the first time in your answer about not crossing any boundaries.
If you love something set it free. If it comes back it's yours if it doesn't it never was.

ViciDraco · 36-40, M

If he seems happy, a confession could disrupt that.

Flip your roles with both him and his partner.

How would you feel if you were in a relationship and a former crush confessed to you?

How would you feel if you were in a relationship and someone confessed to your partner even though they knew he was with you?

Those are the feelings you would invoke in others if you did cross the boundary. Weigh them as if they were your own against your desire to confess.

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

Life is cruel like that, but relationships are all about timing. Now is not the time.