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Baybreeze · 41-45, F
And it's utterly exhausting. I began being a people pleaser as a kid Bec my home life was a nightmare. I thought,* I hope no one thinks of me as bad or as dirt as my mom does,so I'll do or be whatever they need. * Little did I know over giving does not increase your value at all. Or self esteem. It just makes you frustrated, Bec not many will reciprocate 🥺
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
@Baybreeze It is exhausting, running on empty, with nothing to fill your tank. You're right. In the end, giving doesn't increase your value, it just leaves you empty.