I Have Random Thoughts

In our longing for more we often forget how blessed we truly are, we forget how to appreciate all the good in our lives. We get so carried away with that constant search for happiness, that we overlook the simple joys that can be found in little things.
Happiness is not that elusive thing in the future we will feel when we land that dream job, find that perfect relationship, or whatever else we're longing for. Happiness is in the smile of a child, it's that ray of sunshine piercing the clouds, it's in the beauty of that flower growing on the side of the road. Happiness is in the warmth of a friend's hug, the random kindness of a stranger, that first sip of water when you're thirsty, the sweetness of a dessert.... It's all the little things we often take for granted.
Happiness is first and foremost an attitude. It's not some fleeting emotion that a lucky few experience. It's a choice we make. We can choose to focus on the good in our lives, or we can whine about all that is missing. We can all find in our lives reasons to smile and reasons to weep, and ultimately our happiness lies within us. Your happiness is up to you.
We need to stop pining for what can't be, stop longing for more. We need to learn to live in the moment more, count our blessings and be thankful for all the wonderful people in our lives. Happiness can only come from within.