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I Want To Write My Random Thoughts And Feelings

This is tough—how often do we find true love in the first place? And how frustrating is it when we find it but it comes at such an inopportune time, such as when you're in another relationship? Of course it's ideal if you can leave the current relationship for a shot at a new one, but it's not always that easy. Sometimes you can't leave, or other times you don't want to leave, in which case you try to balance both relationships. But can you really do this and keep everyone happy?
Tukudo · 41-45, M
When you have emotional attachment with past relationship you can't be happy in new relationship !
Kalina · 31-35, F
Thanks to all for sharing thoughts... I just want to highlight that those are just my thoughts that I asked myself a lot because I would like to understand some things in life,...
It is not in connection with me and I am not the one who cheat,... I am just trying to figure out some deeper or other side of life or feelings ,...because i don't want to be judgemantal....
Tukudo · 41-45, M
@Kalina: Welcome.
Dreammmer · 61-69, M
@Kalina: Be careful not to make the mistake and ask yourself continuously if there could be someone better out there for you. There is not. Once you have decided to love a partner, stop comparing and thinking and wondering. It ruins every relationship. And I think you dont want this done to you, that he is not totally and unreservedly for you and with you and no other woman could ever compare or match up to you.
SW-User
Indeed you can't keep everyone happy, rather all involved end up miserably... Then it also happens that you may avoid a new relationship because you're already in a committed relationship, and later the committed relationship disintegrates and one wonders, "what if I had started *that* other relationship...?" Damned if you do, damned if you don't...
ili1981 · 41-45, M
This is tricky... Because many times we are in relationship and when met someone we feel the excitement and we feel things that we don't in our current relationship but this doesn't mean that is the best for you... You need to be absolutely sure before you leave your current partner.. You can't have everyone happy no, but is your life...not theirs ...
Dreammmer · 61-69, M
You cant. The problem is that you got into a relationship too quick. And then I question this idea of true love. True love is when you look back on 10 or 20 years of marriage, making it together and growing together. True love is certainly not strong feelings and dreams about someone before you actually commit yourself to that person.
SW-User
You can't keep everyone happy.

The expectation of love is that it is a bond between two people. Feelings beyond the first pairing are "cheating."

It is tough having a loving heart. You feel like you must share it with everyone but there's such an expectation to be paired up.
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
It's happened to me and we just had to accept we could not be together
Kalina · 31-35, F
@MrAverage1965: sorry to hear that,...did the relationship with another person then worked out?
Goralski · 56-60, M
Anyone who cheats doesn't deserve happiness in an relationship
SW-User
Our past aways determines our future actions. It always cautions us
SW-User
It's a juggling act for sure 🤔 Lol I'm not that good of a liar 🙄
I guess that person who this could apply to needs to follow his or her heart. That's where the right answer rests.
Kalina · 31-35, F
@From2differentworlds: yeah that is true,...

 
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