I Have Random Thoughts
I am very annoyed with my brother right now.
He wants to make the trip to come visit this weekend and is complaining about money and expenses and etc. ok we get it no one is forcing you to come visit. His wife and daughter are staying With us for 6 weeks which has reduced his household cost for 6 weeks and increased mine but I'm not complaining, I'm still feeding them and if my husband and I want to go out to dinner we take them with us.
I think his complaining about the money is a way to get us to feel bad and help him out to come and go. But I'm done bailing him out, loaning him money and getting him out of binds. He's the older brother my husband and I shouldn't have to keep bailin him out every time money gets tight for him. He's never been able to help us out or even offered when my husband and I have had our own binds.
I think it's time to just let him free fall he'll either stabilize and land on his feet or land on his head. It's up to him.
He wants to make the trip to come visit this weekend and is complaining about money and expenses and etc. ok we get it no one is forcing you to come visit. His wife and daughter are staying With us for 6 weeks which has reduced his household cost for 6 weeks and increased mine but I'm not complaining, I'm still feeding them and if my husband and I want to go out to dinner we take them with us.
I think his complaining about the money is a way to get us to feel bad and help him out to come and go. But I'm done bailing him out, loaning him money and getting him out of binds. He's the older brother my husband and I shouldn't have to keep bailin him out every time money gets tight for him. He's never been able to help us out or even offered when my husband and I have had our own binds.
I think it's time to just let him free fall he'll either stabilize and land on his feet or land on his head. It's up to him.
36-40, F
