I Have Random Thoughts

When a man really, really wants a woman, he's allowed to keep trying to talk her into giving him a chance. And she's supposed to be kind, give him a fair chance, etc. Even if (deep down inside) she's started to feel scolded and pressured and hassled.

But if a woman did that to a man, everybody would say she was too clingy and needy, and she should back off, not chase him, etc.

Why the double standard?